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Nancy McKeon will use our Substack column to report on home fashions and decorative objects to covet.
Art Director Kathy Legg will continue to keep us looking good.
Stephanie Cavanaugh will stow her gardening gear to join us on Substack, writing about fashion, makeup, skincare.
Mary Carpenter will post future well-being stories in her own new Substack space: carmedpub.substack.com. (She can also be reached by email at carmedpub@gmail.com.)
Meredith Gallo, our secret online weapon, will keep us alive on social media.
Kitchen Detail’s Nancy Pollard is starting her own Substack column. (You can now find her reporting and recipes at the Kitchen Detail website lacuisineus.
And Valerie Monroe‘s wise words on beauty and aging can still be found at her How Not to F*ck Up Your Face address: valeriemonroe.substack.com.
Boot up for winter weather. Clockwise from left: L.L. Bean’s 10-inch shearling-lined boot, Baffin’s lightweight Cloud, North Face’s shorty puffer and Cougar’s zip-up.
By Janet Kelly
WALK like a duck or a penguin, taking short, flat-footed steps in your boots. Look 10 feet ahead of you. Those are two pieces of conventional wisdom about how not to find yourself in a face plant on snow, ice, or slush, to name a few possibilities.
During these days of way-below normal temperatures, keeping your feet warm is a must, so materials matter—faux fur, fleece, shearling and down. So does construction—make sure seams are sealed—and fit. A close fit around the calf keeps the wet stuff from dribbling in; a cuff or collar to line the boot opening also helps. Set your sights on foot gear with high-quality insulation for warmth, waterproof/water-resistant materials to keep you dry and deep-traction soles (with rugged treads) to prevent slipping.
When it comes to height, shorter boots are easier for walking around in, but if you’re trudging through deep snow, taller boots are more protective.
Lastly, you don’t have to sacrifice fashion for function. Manufacturers of snow boots are incorporating color and pattern in their designs and using technology to make more streamlined, less clunky models.
Speaking of color, the stormy blue shade on these Baffin boots is a welcome departure from the usual hues. More important are the 13.5 inch shaft and toggle on top that keeps the snow out and a drawstring at the ankle with locking toggle for a better fit. A multi-layer inner boot keeps feet warm while a heel and front with knobby rubber disks grips the ground. They’re also lightweight, so easily packable for your trip to snow country.
I love the whimsical design on these slip-on, waterproof, sweat-wicking boots that will keep you warm unless the Fahrenheit goes below -40 degrees. A friend who’s in the know about winter boots— she spends almost half the year teaching at McGill in Montreal notes:”Great for big dumps of snow.”
Face the elements in this tonal, army green (it also comes in black) waterproof boot. The faux fur lining delivers warmth, while the slip-resistant rubber sole provides needed traction on slushy sidewalks. The openings for a pull-on grip are practical for taking the boots on and off, but I wondered whether snow could seep through them.
A thermal lining with silver dots reflects body heat so your feet stay warm, while an outsole with fiberglass particles in the rubber grips slippery surfaces. This Columbia boot is available in three other colors.
The 7-inch-high, waterproof leather and suede Adirondack has an outsole with wide-spaced, little rubber teeth to help you stay sturdy. The cuff collar and the inner boot is lined with a combination of wool and Lyocell and extra insulation to cope with cold (it has -17 degree F cold-weather rating). Heavy snow, these boots have got you.
Waterproof with an adjustable nylon back strap for a secure fit, this North Face lightweight boot (1 pound 8 ounces) is lined and equipped with a collar bungee to prevent snow and such from getting inside. Besides taupe green, it’s also available in three other colors.
Sorel’s Caribou, which has been around since 1962, has a legion of fans. On the heavy side (they weigh in at more than 3 pounds), the 9-inch-high Caribou’s waterproof outer is securely stitched to waterproof rubber soles. Warm fleece collars help keep snow and debris out, while handy, removable wool-blend liners let you dry them out quickly if you sweat too much or get moisture inside of them.
Thanks to a front zipper, this platform puffer is easy to take on and off, when you need a quick change into your tennis sneakers or street shoes. Ideal for slushy situations and temps that stay above -11 degrees. By the way, it’s on sale now for $54.98 at DSW.
A reliable source tells me that this is the to-die for boot for Bean acolytes. Buttery-soft, weather-resistant, tumbled leather with a plush shearling lining and a side zipper for easier on/off. The waterproof rubber bottom has a chain-tread outsole for traction.
L.L. Bean rates this boot’s comfort level as “warmer,” meaning they’ll keep your feet cozy and dry on cold, snowy days with plenty of insulation and waterproof upper. The fashion-conscious will applaud the fleece on the upper panel, and the suede leather back pull eases the putting-on and taking-off process. My sole complaint is that Bean doesn’t make half sizes.
Okay, these are not the sensible pick for snow and ice, but for toasty warmth and understated design that will complement your winter wardrobe, an enthusiastic thumbs-up. I’d wear them with black tights or leggings.
Comfort ratings like -40 degrees Fahrenheit are a little silly. Really, who’s venturing out in those conditions? What makes these special is rather than having to strap on ice cleats, they’re already built into the sole and heated.
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Keeping cozy with—clockwise from left to right— a faux fur-lined trapper hat, a set of sweats, a faux fur throw, shearling-lined mittens and oh-so-soft pjs and cushy slippers.
By MyLittleBird Staff
HAPPY 2025, everyone. In case you’re wondering, I took a break the last week of December, but now I’m right back here in the considering what’s cozy—wardrobe-related, mainly. The frigid temps sending chills and pouring snow down the East Coast have given me loads of inspiration.
When it’s freezing outside, nothing keeps me as warm as my shearling coat. Shearling slippers also make cold feet a non-issue. To avoid the shivers on the seriously under-heated pickleball courts I play on, I rely on a fleece jacket and sweatpants, plus a Uniqlo HeatTech turtleneck. My neck is jonesing for a trendy triangle knit scarf. I’ve recently bought a couple of corduroy pants that are much more insulating than jeans; the same goes for corduroy shirts.
Take a peek at my cozy picks directly below. I also asked my colleagues—Nancy McKeon, Kathy Legg and Meredith Gallo—to chime in with their thoughts on what makes them feel cozy.
If you want to feel warm, don’t forget your feet. L.L. Bean’s Wicked Good Squam Lake slippers keep tootsies toasty with shearling-lined collar and insole.
Corduroy has made a comeback for cold weather. This shirt in pale khaki from L.L. Bean comes in nine other colors.
Nancy
As for cozy, if you want to be truly warm in temps that drift below 15 degrees or so, strap on a dead animal. Sad but true: My 37-year-old knee-length sheared mouton jacket (yes, it has exaggerated shoulder pads) is what I trot out when the temperature truly dips. Also, one December more than a few years back, it was 14 degrees in NYC and I happened to be walking (with Janet) through the Fur District; hence my fox-trimmed trapper hat, complete with furry earflaps.
My problems are my fingers and my earlobes. so even in relatively mild winter weather, even 40 degrees, I wear ear muffs (they just look as though I’m listening to music like everyone else on the street) and Ugg shearling-lined sheepskin mittens (mittens are cozier than gloves because your fingers can keep one another warm).
The embroidery is a nice touch, but the warmth of these Ugg mittens comes from the sheepskin inside and out.
Kathy
I tend to run hot, plus I HATE to be smothered in a lot of layers, so cozy really doesn’t describe my wardrobe. However, I do have a couple options I depend on when things cool down.
When I turned 60 I splurged and bought myself a beautiful long black shearling coat. It’s gorgeous and incredibly warm. I feel very swank wearing it. But as the winters have gotten milder I’ve worn it less and less. It’s heavy. Last winter I decided to go for something lighter weight and turned to Eileen Fisher and one of her puffer coats. I think it’s even warmer than the shearling. And I swear it weighs less than a butterfly. It’s stuffed with some recycled material (garbage bags I’m guessing)(not really)(maybe), and no amount of cold wind seems to penetrate it. I wouldn’t say I look swank (who does in a puffer coat) but I also don’t look like the Pillsbury Dough Boy thanks to the Eileen Fisher aesthetic.
My only other recommendation for apparel that verges on cozy is the Tommy Bahama half-zip sweatshirt, which has been my winter uniform for years. I have at least a dozen in different colors. Plus multiple white ones. They’re soft and warm and really don’t look like sweatshirts. Casual but not sloppy.
I’M THE opposite of Kathy. I run cold. To me being cozy always means throwing on a big cashmere sweater. This is a really obvious one but I’ve re-fallen in love with layering long-sleeved t-shirts under my wool or cashmere sweaters. I invested in a few Heat Tech T-shirts from Uniqlo, and they’re my new favorite thing. They’re just so warm and feel like a second skin.
I was just visiting my family in Atlanta over Christmas and I unfortunately found myself at Lululemon queuing with about 100 other people to buy or return something. The line was mostly young girls and their moms and nearly all of them were in some sort of sweatsuit or planning to buy some sort of sweatsuit. My own mom is a big proponent of the sweatsuit as something cozy to wear at home or while running errands. I’m less convinced, but she got this Spanx half-zip and wide-leg pants set for Christmas that I love.
On the topic of coats. I just gifted myself this wool blend wrap coat from Banana Republic. I haven’t tested it yet on a cold day, but it’s very chic when I wear it in front of my bathroom mirror.
I also love a big cozy blanket and saw that Pottery Barn is having a sale on most of their throw blankets. This one caught my eye.
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Clockwise from top left: a starburst brooch, an embellished evening coat, burnt red satin kitten heels, gleaming lip gloss, a sculptural pin and a mini satin purse.
By Janet Kelly
YOU KNOW that panicky feeling when you don’t have anything appropriate to wear for a festive occasion, and you’re tempted to splurge on a whole new outfit? In my experience what that leads to is regret.
Instead, shop your closet to evaluate what you already own. Then add strategically—with a floral brooch from Georg Jensen, Emme Parsons’s striking red shoes or Destree’s diminutive silky satin purse. Dôen’s evening coat is more than an accent. Nevertheless, it’s a finishing touch you’ll turn to way beyond the holidays.
When I couldn’t find shoes I liked enough to wear to a wedding, I bought a pair of plain black satin pumps at DSW and made them sparkle with a set of crystal clips. These also come in a square shape.
A quick fix to elevate an evening look? Transparent tights with Lurex add a glamorous gleam. Swiss brand Fogal has been making fashionable stockings since 1921. These have a reinforced toe and a cotton crotch for comfort—and durability.
Imagine this: You walk into the party wearing this evening coat from Dôen (it’s 90% cashmere and 10% wool), and you keep it on. It’s elegant all on its own, paired with, say, trim, cropped pants.
One of Georg Jensen’s well-known motifs, the simple, graphic design of this sterling silver and enamel brooch can be the starring attraction on a sweater, jacket or coat. You say you want something more modern—Jensen’s Moonlight Grapes brooch here.
After what seems like a long absence, fashion folk have embraced silky satin fabrics this fall, right on time for the season’s dress-up opportunities. Wear this one from Massimo Dutti with a pleated gray midi or the black you already own.
Designer Joan Goodman’s jewelry reflects her love of exotic nature in Hawaii. Her sculpted interpretation of a delicate azalea will shimmer, pinned on a lapel or a scarf or bag.
A sure-fire cure for winter pasty-face. It may be wishful thinking on my part but I do think Chanel’s gloss with coconut oil and Vitamin E not only lights up my complexion but also plumps my lips. I like this Tendresse hue, but it comes in 11 other shades.
Emme Parsons disrupts the traditional Mary Jane with a pointy toe and sexy cut-outs. A pop of red is an unexpected finish for the neutrals in your closet.
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Clockwise, from bottom left: A woody fragrance from Hermetica, a catchall tray, pink pjs, a satin boutonnière, a notebook for dog lovers and Diptyque’s fig-scented candle.
By Janet Kelly
A PATAGONIA down vest, cute fanny pack, a new cookbook or two and unnecessary gadgets—I’m checking those off my list for the men in my family.
What I’m really enjoying is the hunt for gifts for my girl tribe. My teenage granddaughters, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, my daughter-in-law’s mother (she always gets me presents) and a bunch of wonderful friends, both new and old. Dear readers, please forgive me for including myself among the giftees. If you can’t spoil yourself now, when can you?
Sometimes the best gifts are the ones you buy for yourself, like this pair of snuggly hand warmers—timed perfectly for this week’s Arctic blast—and the next one, too. They’re $55 and come in four other colors.
A while ago I read that you should paint your bedroom the color that’s most flattering to your face. The same should apply to sleepwear, no? The 30% off the price of both top and bottom (with code GREAT) is a bonus on these glowy pink, all-cotton poplin pjs.
As mentioned, I’ve already gotten my husband his gifts. But this thick, soft turkish cotton one is sooo up his preppy alley . . . If not, I really love it for moi. From Brooklinen for $129.
The perfect perfume? It’s the alchemy between the fragrance and your skin, so what smells divine on your pal might be a big mistake on you, as you undoubtedly have discovered. At Bloomingdale’s not so recently, I spritzed on this Hermetica woody and citrus scent and decided I may have to cheat on my longtime favorite, Acqua di Parma. It comes with a sample so you can try it on at home without opening the bottle. If it doesn’t work magic on you, return it.
An accessory is always a good idea. Even better when it’s created by a clothing designer. Han Feng’s handmade boutonnière (available in organza, satin, and silk in white, black and black and white) attaches to clothing with a protective silk-covered magnet and comes in three sizes—small 2½”, medium 3″ and large 3½”. A terrific gift for adding interest to a blouse, a jacket or a dress. It sells, starting at $52 for the small in black organza, at New York City’s Neue Galerie’s opulent museum shop.
Heart-shaped jewelry is not just for Valentine’s Day. Take the hip Stephanie Ruhle, MSNBC’s “The Eleventh Hour” anchor, who regularly wears her expertly layered two necklaces with large hearts. Maybe my daughter-in-law would like this gold-tone brass chain necklace (34″) and heart pendant (1.5″). The mini puffy heart necklace has an 18.5″ chain with a 3/4″ pendant.
“A lot of my patients are asking about red light therapy,” says my dermatologist. She’s doing her research but hasn’t yet come up with anything definitive about its ability to improve wrinkles and lighten dark spots. The raison d’être for it, if you ask me. A friend, who’s also a physical therapist, though, says that Lumebox, a portable red light therapy device, does relieve muscle aches and has recently begun using it on her face. For the nonce, the jury’s out. (It sells for $629, but has frequent sales promotions which lowers the price to $369.)
I’m considering something to comfort the tired tootsies of my favorite 13-year-old, who’s captain of her school soccer team. These shearling-lined slippers from L.L. Bean are looking like the winning candidate for a shoe that’s soft, cozy and durable.
From its first scented candles in 1963, Diptyque has built up its collection to almost 50 scents, from cannelle (cinnamon) to cyprès (cypress) to gardénia (gardenia) and tubéreuse (tuberose). How soul soothing would it be to inhale the fragrance of figs on a freezing winter day. I also like feu de bois (firewood) to replicate the scent of wood crackling in a fireplace. Figuier comes in four sizes—2.5, 6.5, 10.6 and an extra-large 51.3 ounces.
More shawl than scarf at a generous 78.7″ by 79.3″, this vibrantly colored wrap from Paris-based Épice is a toasty neck warmer well worth giving and/or receiving under the tree or for Hanukah (the first night of the holiday falls on Christmas Day!).
Who wants socks for a gift? If they’re as cute as these chunky crews made by Hansel From Basel, your sister-in-law, cousin, possibly your whole girl gang.
What does my favorite 17-year-old want for Hanukah and/or Christmas? Having failed in my previous attempts at gift giving, I asked her mother, who recommended this dainty bracelet with interlocking hearts from Gorjana.
Leave it to Apple to make a geeky pair of over-the-ear headphones look so damn stylish. Listen up, my podcast-listening friends: you get high-quality audio (Apple calls it surround sound), memory foam, comfy ear cushions that seal in sound and a noise control button to switch on to counter unwanted noise or off to let outside sound in “so you can interact naturally with your surroundings” (translation: so you can hear the bus coming or a car horn before either hits you as you walk on obliviously). It comes in five other colors.
Prada lovers will swoon over this square porcelain tray (6.7″ by 6.7″) with its famous lipstick print, created for the brand’s Spring/Summer 2000 collection. It’s a splurge at $440, but still a lot less expensive than anything else with the Prada logo. Here’s a less pricey alternative—an eye-catching catchall from Edie Parker.
Four-legged friends —a Dalmatian, Cocker Spaniel and Whippet—animate the cover of Smythson’s calf leather notebook. Because its 192 pages of gilt-edged, pale blue, ruled paper are half as thick and weigh half as much as normal paper, they can fit in a slim, light book (5.5″ w x 7.7″ h). For your dog-loving or journalist friend who needs a place to contain her abundant notes.
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Show you’re a smarty pants in chic trousers from Cinq à Sept, Sézane, Vince and Talbots.
By Janet Kelly
MOVE OVER, party tops. A parade of pants on fall 2024 runways from the likes of designers Dries Van Noten and Jonathan Anderson signaled a new look not only in the silhouette and fabric of trousers this season but also fresh ways to wear them.
New silk, satin and velvet pants drape around the lower body and elongate the legs. If your go-to outfit is an oversized sweater and jeans, consider a formula change: Swap the denim for silk and put it all together with ballet flats or kitten heels. You say that’s great for casual get togethers but not dressed up enough for some upcoming festivities?
Matching a satin top with coordinating pants, à la Massimo Dutti (below), ups the dressiness. Moreover, Johnny Was’s metallic trouser and tunic will put you in fine fettle for soirée season, as will sequin pants from H&M and cropped black pants with a cluster of sparkling bows from Anthropologie.
Below, see the 16 party pants that have captured my attention.
NB: When shopping for silk pants, a bias cut influences how the fabric drapes on the body. The diagonal cut provides inherent stretch, which is especially important for a fabric like silk that might not have much stretch on its own. This stretch and drape help the silk pants conform to the body’s curves without pulling or bunching, leading to a more flattering fit.
J. Crew’s relaxed-leg pants in a light-reflecting fabric come already “crinkled,” so they’re great for packing and not too precious to wear to a workplace or on an errand run.
I’m a big fan of navy particularly when you want a kinder, gentler version of black. You can dress these pleated pants up with a flowy silk blouse or down—with an oversized, comfy sweater for a casual dinner out. For practical purposes, I’d hem them, as I would many of these pants below.
If you’re jonesing for a comfort of a track pant that you can wear to a party, here’s one in a silk-velvet blend with contrasting silk stripes that also comes in deep merlot.
Wear these elegant white, bias-cut pants to a winter fête. If the thought of staggeringly high cleaning bills stops you, they’re supposedly washable. However, they’re also available in four other colors.
For a formal-ish do, pair these high-waisted, rosewood pants with Me+Em’s über-feminine silk ruffle crop blouse; they also will look special with Sézane’s matching cardigan.
A combo of sparkle and texture, these easygoing pants will shine by their lonesome with a top of your choice. Mate them with a matching tunic and voilà, an outfit.
The sparkly tiny bows on these high-rise, wide-leg trousers are so darn cute. Too cutesy? Nah!
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WE LITTLE BIRDS have flown the nest and are poised to sit down with our respective families and gobble up a feast with all the fixin’s.
We’re grateful to you, dear readers, and hope you have a very happy Thanksgiving Day and weekend, too. Which reminds us—we’ll be taking a little break, but we’ll be back here in our usual spot next Monday, December 2.
Grab ’em now. From left to right, J. Crew’s luxe white jacket, Zella’s sleek performance jacket and a pretty pair of cords.
By Janet Kelly
ONLY ONE more day to sleep until Black Friday! Never mind that most Black Friday sales have already begun.
Last week we found great deals on some retro-looking striped socks, dark indigo jeans spiffy enough to pass for more formal pants, breezy linen pjs for cool sleeping and a trendy weighted walking vest with health benefits. This week we’ve got our eye on a terrific tinted sunscreen that’s almost one-third off its usual price; a mascara we’re obsessed with that’s a steal considering it’s selling for $10 less than usual; a posh-white jacket glammed up with rhinestone buttons and cherry-colored corduroy pants. Oh, boy!
A lightweight tinted sunscreen my dermatologist loves. I do, too. It’s not cheap, so Dermstore’s Black Friday Sale is the time to buy it—for 30% off (use code JOY).
I’ve tried many other mascaras over the years, but I always come back to this one with its easy-to-use, lash-separating hourglass brush. It usually sells for $29 but during Ulta’s Black Friday Beauty Deals, it’s $20.30.
Instead of the regular $95 price, about a dozen or more Cariuma Oca Low canvas sneakers are selling for $45. I don’t know how long this sale will last, so jump on it if you want this style in white, gray, sand, navy and a few other colors, including my favorite, off-white canvas with a gum sole.
My savvy daughter-in-law is sold on Merit Beauty. I’m always on the hunt for a blush that works on my dry skin, so I’m tempted to try this creamy one while it’s $24 instead of $30.
Indoor tennis and pickleball courts are always cold, so I’d happily slip on this sleek fitting, sporty stand-collar jacket, which is $69.99 during Nordstrom’s Black Friday sale. It also comes in navy, light blue and pink.
I’m a fan of corduroy pants. They keep my legs warm! These—from Banana Republic—are $92 during the retailer’s sale. They’re available in this cheerful cherry jam color and black.
Also from Mango, a peacoat-inspired jacket with top buttons you can leave open or wrap close around your neck. It’s now selling for $129.99, down from $199.99.
I bought these trouser-like jeans for full price and don’t regret it. But, during 7 For All Mankind’s Black Friday Preview, take an extra 25% off sale with code: SHOPEARLY. They’re $146, reduced from $208.
My colleague Meredith Gallo has three pairs of these from Amazon. She says, “They’re cheap ($54.90) but don’t look like it, and they come in so many color ways. Great for weddings and holiday parties.”
Is it just me or are jackets more user-friendly than coats? Besides the pretty hue, this one from REI Co-op offers 650-fill-power down for warmth and a windproof, water-resistant shell fabric. Until November 25, it’s on sale for $77.39.
Says Meredith, “I really like these socks from Amazon; they could be a fun stocking stuffer (pun intended).” A Black Friday Deal, three pairs are $11.19; five for $15.99.
A fair isle sweater that looks more grownup girl than kid with shades of deep lavender, merlot and cream. In Brooks Bros. 30% off site-wide sale, it’s $173.60, down from $240.
I think this cute little belt bag (7″ x 2″ x 4 1/2″ D) with an adjustable strap will be perfect for my trip down under this coming February. It’s on final sale from Athleta for $19.97.
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From left to right, Prada’s, Ralph Lauren’s and Mango’s take on the barn jacket.
By Janet Kelly
KATIE Holmes and Kate Middleton are fans; so was the late Queen Elizabeth. The influential Miuccia Prada signaled her endorsement in her spring 2024 collection. Meanwhile, it’s one of Tim Walz’s signatures. Yes, I’m talking about barn jackets—the outerwear trend that’s everywhere and can be worn over just about anything.
First designed for farm workers, the functional barn jacket, made from heavy-duty canvas (often waxed) and lined in flannel, will keep you warm and dry. Deep patch pockets meant for storing farm tools can easily accommodate keys, phones, glasses, doggie bags, etc. You can throw it over a chunky knit and jeans for pooch-walking duties, but that doesn’t mean your inner preppy can’t wear it over a pleated skirt and loafers or ballet flats for a holiday do.
Brands from Uniqlo and Orvis to J. Crew, Alex Mill and Barbour all have their versions. Here are ones I’m excited about:
The Prada barn jacket—from the 2024 spring runway—that “fashionized” a classic utilitarian look and inspired me to take another look.
I frequently find things in the men’s clothing department I’d gladly wear if only they came in women’s sizes. With this 1950s-inspired men’s barn jacket, I can come close by ordering one size down from my regular size small—a men’s extra small—for an oversized fit. If I preferred a more fitted look, I’d size down further to a men’s extra-extra small. It also comes in black. Either way, the red tartan plaid lining is fetching.
For one thing, a Barbour jacket, beloved as it is by the British Royals, nails the stealth-wealth look. It’s also practical. The water-repellent waxed cotton fabric keeps you dry and warm and when it gets colder, you can zip in a Barbour fleece-lined vest and/or snap on a hood. Or save some bucks—the jacket is roomy enough to layer over your own cozy sweater.
Orvis’s canvas jacket is not waxed; rather it’s been washed for softer feel. I’d size up so I could fit a vest and sweater underneath. When I’m out walking with friends, I don’t want to lug a handbag, but want to carry cards, maybe sunscreen and a lip balm in the likely event we stop for coffee or something, so all the pockets are my pals. Did I mention I love the red color (it also comes in two others).
In on-trend olive green, L.L. Bean’s water-repellent cotton canvas jacket has the traditional flannel lining, corduroy collar and boxy fit that’s easy to move in and layer under.
Me + Em mixes a modern, oversized fit with plush corduroy trims. Try wearing it with leather leggings—here’s a gorgeous pair. For balance, add a chunky sweater on top.
Of course you can wear this quilted jacket (also available in three other colors) with jeans but you could also embrace your inner preppy and pair it with a midi plaid skirt and ballet flats.
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The fall harvest, clockwise, from left to right, Aritzia super puff jacket, Mango bomber jacket, Paige Mary Jane, L’Agence polo, Remain leather jacket and mini clutch from Mansur Gavriel.
By Janet Kelly
REMEMBER MAROON? Today, it goes by a slew of food-and-wine related names, including burgundy, the most popular, along with merlot, deep merlot, oxblood, dark syrah, claret, Chianti, pomegranate, berry brown and bordeaux. For background, I checked in with an expert, Leatrice Eiseman, director of the Eiseman Center for Color Information and Training and executive director of the Pantone® Color Institute.
“Burgundy is a classic fall color. You don’t look at it and think that’s so yesterday,” says Eiseman. “Its versatility is huge because it works well with so many other colors. Even new cosmetic hair dyes have burgundy tones. It’s universally flattering.”
For those of us whose closets are full of black, burgundy behaves like a neutral on shoes and handbags. Instead of all that face-draining gray from last year, choose a bordeaux or merlot turtleneck, coat or cropped jacket (BTW, it will look terrific with any shade of gray skirt or pair of pants).
And that’s not nearly all. See below for how we’re thinking about wearing the it color of the season.
Gold-tone buttons stand out against this wine-colored, snappy jacket. Cheers to the cropped silhouette. And look how great the blues of the shirt and indigo jeans mate with maroon.
With its strap across the instep, this foot-friendly Mary Jane is also flattering. I’d step aside from my go-to black for this glossy patent-leather oxblood shoe.
Show off those Mary Janes above with these dark oxblood pants in on-trend corduroy, a fall-to-winter classic—and durable—fabric. Note how the width at the leg and the high-rise waist create a flattering fit that elongates the legs.
A fashionable friend recently met me for coffee carrying this sculptural, small (5″ h-by-9.5″ w-by-2.75″ d) pomegranate clutch. I immediately wanted it as an alternative to my large tote. I found a similar one from Porto (9.5″ l-by-6.3″ h) for half the price i in vino rosso that’s also molto simpatico.
This summer I lived in my white gum shoe sneakers from Cariuma. Now, I’m hankering for something colorful with texture, but still classic, like these suede sneakers with blue accents.
While leather jackets can run into the many thousands, Copenhagen-based Remain’s wheelhouse is affordable luxury, which doesn’t skim on style, as evident in this mahogany red high-neck leather jacket with drop shoulders and wide sleeves.
I have an Iro sweater/jacket with the same boxy silhouette—it was spendy at the time, but I’ve amortized over many years, and it’s a staple of my winter wardrobe.
Bomber jackets are looking chic again. Pair this one in chianti from Mango with its matching midi skirt. The simplest way to look elegant is to dress up in one color, from head to toe.
If burgundy goes with everything, why not make it a mascara color? Charlotte Tilbury’s new “dream pop” is a berry-brown hue that brings out the gold in hazel eyes, the amber in brown eyes, etc. Plus, the applicator’s diamond-shaped bristles coats and separates lashes to full effect.
For a posh evening out in winter or for a dressy holiday party, black velvet pants have been my go-to. But these in dark oxblood look tempting. I’d get them shortened just a bit—to avoid the possibility of a face plant.
I can’t say whether the touch technology in these gloves will work well enough to text and take photos, but the cashmere and longish cuffs should keep your digits and wrists cozy. And there’s a matching burgundy beanie and scarf to spiff up, say a camel or navy or any color coat.
I usually lean in the direction of longer puffers but lately I’m thinking shorter is my preference for everyday errands—less encumbering. I also don’t like to be cold, so this spiced burgundy snug jacket filled with 700+ fill-power down (I’ll stay warm unless it goes below (-4°F) is calling my name.
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Flatter your neck with (from left to right) a scarf sweater from Mango, Phoebe Philo’s cashmere funnel neck and Róhe’s draped wool blouse.
By Janet Kelly
ASK ANY VAMPIRE—the neck is an erogenous zone. But those mythical creatures are not the only ones who think that. This season, designers from Phoebe Philo and Proenza Schouler to mid-price retailers, such as Mango and Massimo Dutti, are showing their love of necks, too.
Soft, drapey blouses with asymmetric folds are having a moment. A long fringe of silvery strands is the quintessential neck adornment/armor.
Speaking of protective clothing, as we lean into chillier temps, just thinking of coats and sweaters that come with their own scarves, funnel-neck knits to duck into and hide from the world in and wraparound collars on jackets makes me feel warm and cozy.
Massimo Dutti’s satiny, funnel-neck shirt is a handy top to dress up a pair of slim-cut jeans or to add shine to tapered black wool pants. It sells for $120.
If you forget your scarf, no problem. It’s attached to this coat (also available in four other colors) by one button in the front under the collar and one in the back. You can wear the extra fabric as a cape or a scarf, tossed insouciantly over one shoulder.
I’d take the sweetness out of this chiffon-like plaid top by pairing it with one of those long leather skirts that are everywhere this season. For coverage, it comes with a camisole underneath.
Besides the exaggerated pointed collar—flattering for rounder faces—this shirt with long cuffs and fitted waist is just a good tweak on the classic white button-down.
Phoebe Philo’s newest (January-June 2025) collection won’t be available for a few months, but I can dreaming of owning this neck adornment with a fringe of streaming sterling silver threads.
The color, formerly known as burgundy and now referred to, for example, as sienna, claret and dark syrah (really), is one of the season’s favorites. Whatever it’s called, I’m happy to see its return for fall on knits like this pilgrim-collar cashmere cardigan. Elongate your figure by pairing the cropped silhouette with a high-waist pant in a like hue.
Depending on your point of view, you’re either simplifying your wardrobe by replacing two pieces of clothing with one making the one you have overly fussy. Anyway, I’m game to try the combo from Mango.
Tie-neck silk blouses are nothing new. Just ask Kamala Harris, who has worn hers on repeat during her presidential campaign. For cooler temps on the way, Frame takes the style and makes it in cashmere. A neck warmer for sure.
What I like love about Phoebe Philo’s sweater is the funnel neck that stands up straight and looks as if you won’t have to fiddle with it to keep it that way.
With exposed seams and a similar to but less structured neck than Philo’s, H&M’s sweater (also available in cream and charcoal) shows off its best self with the collar and cuffs of a white shirt popping up and out. The look-for-less knit sells for $34.99.
In addition to a shiny fabric and wool, Batsheva’s draped-neck blouse comes in crushed velvet in silver, slated for the holiday season for just because.
Winter jackets can look too bulky. Instead, I’d like to bundle up in this sleek version with a neck-warming color from Massimo Dutti’s Limited Edition. $590 Massimo Dutti
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Pleats, please. From left to right, a preppy plaid from Ralph Lauren, a dress-up or dress-down option from Free People and a burgundy knife-pleat skirt from J. Crew.
By Janet Kelly
TAYLOR Swift favors micro-mini pleated skirts, while Miuccia Prada, who designs pleated micro-minis for her Miu Miu line, prefers knee-length and midis in her own wardrobe.
I asked fashion historian and professor at Parsons School of Design Jessica Glasscock for her thoughts on pleats: “Pleats date back to ancient Egyptian and Greek and Roman clothing. They’re so practical, easy to move in and are accommodating to all body types.”
That said, Glasscock says to ask: Where does the pleat start, where does it end? Are you a below-the-knee or above-the-knee kind of person? Proportions will make it work or not.
Then there’s body type to consider. The pear-shaped among us should look for flared pleated skirts that skim the hips and stay away from pleats that start at the waistline; the best bet for apple shapes is avoiding voluminous skirts that add bulk to the waist. Hourglass figures should opt for high-waisted pleated skirts to emphasize the waist. Finally, try it on.
I wore pleated skirts in the 1980s from Perry Ellis; I have one from 525 America I purchased 10-plus years ago, and just this summer I bought one from Gerard Darel. And there’s another reason for grownup girls to love these skirts. As Glasscock observes, “They’re accommodating to one’s changing shape and form.”
The high waist and pleating technique at the top of this full skirt makes it a flattering choice for a variety of figures. The shiny fabric makes it a good going-out choice. To dress it down, pair with boots and a bomber jacket. (It comes in five other colors.)
I think the bright burgundy color here is terrific. I’d mate it with a top of the same color for a monochromatic, elongating look. It’s available in four other colors, too.
Yup, “Karl Lagerfeld” lives on as an independent mid-tier line, light-years away in style and price from Chanel, which he designed for so long. The matching shiny top here reinforces the body-lengthening design of the skirt. It’s also available in lavender.
Massimo Dutti is moving up the fashion food chain—the Inditex-owned brand just had its own fall runway show. As I’ve previously mentioned, though, the site is maddeningly hard to navigate. Snap up this high-waisted cotton skirt right now to wear before the weather turns too cold. Style it with this leather jacket that “divides the body and gives the pleats the power to elongate,” says Glasscock.
Theory takes the potential stodginess out of its maxi, drop-waist skirt by adding volume. Instead of flats, I’d wear it with boots. (Psst. Compare with the way more spendy skirt from Prada.)
In her Style Class video on this swishy pull-on skirt, Tibi designer Amy Smilovic pairs it with an oversize shirt that hits at the hips and high boots. The proportion works just right.
Think Princess Diana at a polo match in the early days of her marriage to Prince Charles. Satisfy proportions by contrasting the slim pleats of the skirt with the broad stripes of this cardigan.
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Swagger into fall in Isabel Marant’s layers of suede, Reformation’s swingy fringe jacket and Ralph Lauren’s 10-gallon hat.
By Janet Kelly
I WAS walking in my neighborhood a couple of days ago when I saw a guy in a cowboy hat driving an Elvis-era Eldorado that had a pair of Texas longhorns on the grill. Whoa Nelly. It brought back memories of the hours I spent as a kid watching TV shows like Gunsmoke,Lone Ranger and an Annie Oakley movie or two. Much more recently I got hooked on Yellowstone and its spinoffs, one of them starring Dame Helen Mirren as a rancher wearing a denim shirt, suede jacket and felt hat.
Cowboy culture is in America’s hard drive—and the fashion industrycontinues to take notice. On 2024 fall runways, designers, such as Ralph Lauren and Isabel Marant, paid tribute to the country’s Western roots—with pointed-toe, angled-heel, embroidered boots; fringed leather jackets, big-buckle belts and wide-brimmed hats.
There’s fringe and then there’s the swingy fringe on this Ralph Lauren waxed leather jacket. It’s currently out of stock, but the site says it will notify you if it becomes available. It sells for just under $2,ooo.
Speaking of attitude, you can’t channel your inner cowgirl without a big hat. This wide-brim one in wool felt has a leather tie and tassel. Also available in black, it sells for $98 from the Sundance Catalog.
I’ve never found cowboy boots to be all that comfortable. But Texas-based City Boots says their handmade styles in calfskin leather fit like a glove. They come in gorgeous colors with intricate embroidery, like these in deep green (also available in powder blue, magenta, navy and red. The spendy ($1,250) 8-inch-high boots hit a few inches above the ankle.
From someone who’s struggled to pull on a boot sans zipper, I appreciate ones that have them, like this cropped-to-the-ankle, hand-stitched style ($385) from British label Penelope Chilvers. Right now is a perfect time to wear them with cropped jeans or pants or a midi or maxi skirt or dress.
The skinny on barrel pants is that it’s not flattering, at least that’s what a few of you reported. I’ve seen some exaggerated versions of the style that balloon out mid-leg, which seems like a no-no for most of us. However, this corduroy pant from Everlane looks like a kinder, gentler take on the popular style and it’s available in navy and sandstone.
Cinch the waist of your jeans or a sweater dress with swagger. Madewell’s cowhide waist whittler ($65) is up to the task with a substantial, etched silver-tone buckle.
Double up on Ayr’s relaxed-fitting denim shirt ($165) by pairing it with jeans or for wear it under a puff vest with a tweedy brown jacket. Here’s another one with snaps in a light chambray.
How to smell like a cowgirl? Splash on D.S. & Durga’s scent with notes of sagebrush, white thyme and prairie switchgrass. It sells for $210 for 50ml.
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One style doesn’t fit all. From left to right, a taffeta trench from Milan’s Twinset, Free People’s Rain and Shine trench and a no-frills mac from Everlane.
By Janet Kelly
SELENA GOMEZ wears a bunch of scene-stealing coats in her role as Mabel Mora in Only Murders in the Building. In the fourth season, as the crime podcasting trio (Gomez, Steve Martin and Martin Short) heads to Hollywood, Mabel dons a trench coat, a cliché for a detective. Except Mabel’s is anything but. It’s from French label Sandro, and its delicate pleating sets it apart from the pack. (How she affords this spendy coat —a version in gray sells for $865 at Bloomingdale’s—while supposedly unemployed is another matter.)
Anyway, Mabel got me to contemplating coats for fall weather that can turn in a nanosecond from bright and sunny to a downpour (recently, thanks to Helene here on the East Coast). I still love the classic trench worn by the likes of Audrey Hepburn in Breakfast at Tiffany’s and Meryl Streep in Kramer vs. Kramer. Like Mabel though, I’m attracted to the new, including a taffeta trench with ruffles from Milan’s Twinset, a swashbuckling navy cape from & Other Stories and Free People’s woman-on-the-go coat with reflective zippers, no less.
Rain is not required to wear any of these coats, but if you’re wearing one to protect you from the elements, keep these distinctions in mind: water-resistant, which offers the lowest level of protection, will keep you dry in a light rain for a short time; a step up is water-repellent, meaning water can’t easily penetrate the fabric, instead beading on the outside. If you’re caught in a drenching rain, your best bet is waterproof, which provides a complete barrier.
Take a look below to see what weather-ready coats let you be you—but dry.
For a fresh spin on a classic, Parisian designer Evelyne Chétrite combined epaulets and storm flaps—details of the wardrobe stalwart—with schoolgirl pleats. Yes, please. The trench sells for $790.
This spiffy-looking, cotton-twill coat also riffs on the traditional with a stand-up collar (for wind and rain protection) Uber-wide belt, big patch pockets and corduroy details. If the weather turns warm, your arms have an escape hatch through slits in the sleeves. It sells for $735.
Never heard of Lolë? Listen up. The Montreal-born brand’s mission makes clothes that not only look good but last, too. (I had a pair of Lolë leggings that I wore on repeat for many years.) The zip-up-the-center trench has an adjustable hood and it’s water-repellent, meaning water won’t easily seep through to skin. Also, there’s plenty of room to layer up. It sells for $166 and is available in two other colors.
Like so much veddy British, Barbour appeals to us upstart Americans. This sporty-chic coat should keep out the rain and keep in the warmth with a light perky plaid lining and a zipper closure plus snaps. It sells for $495.
The original mac, named for 19th-century Scottish chemist Charles Macintosh, was made from waterproof material. But that has changed over time. What hasn’t is the stripped-down silhouette, a more casual alternative to the classic trench. The Mac Coat is water-resistant, so it can handle light rain, not a downpour. This one from Everlane also comes in army green and black and sells for $178.
The Buck Mason label has been on my radar lately. Originally only menswear, it has expanded to include women’s clothing. (Both are made in the U.S.A., kind of a rarity.) Similar to Everlane’s mac but with a belt, tab cuffs and a water-repellent finish. It sells for $348 and also comes in black.
Think Audrey or Meryl in Ayr’s take on the trench. A step below water-repellent, this classic coat is made of recycled cotton twill that’s water-resistant (some water may seep through). It sells for $695.
If you’re a sporty girl on the go—or want to look as if you are—this Free People coat, more mac than trench, has your name on it. Made from a lightweight, waterproof and durable fabric, it even has reflective zippers. In case you can’t see your hiking partner through the heavy fog and rain?
This is what I’d call a going-out raincoat for days/nights I just want to look a bit more polished. From Milan-based Twinset, it’s made of taffeta, which I think of as dressy, but it’s also water-repellent. The high neck is also functional, while ruffly cuffs add a feminine vibe. It sells for $381 at Farfetch.
& Other Stories tweaks the short trench coat style with its loose, wide look and bold navy color. It sells for $259. I also like this one from Cuyana with a contrasting black grosgrain belt and water-repellent coating.
The Rains brand scores high on functionality–it’s waterproof and windproof—with this jacket/coat). It also has a light interior padding to make it a go-to in between seasons or through mild winters.
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How to weather fall? In trendy boat loafers, supple leather pants and cushy cashmere.
By Janet Kelly
NOT TO belabor a point I’ve made before about the high cost of clothing, but did you happen to see Bergdorf Goodman’s catalogue for fall? The price of any fancy brand name is way high. A chunky Marc Jacobs wool sweater is $2,000; the Stella McCartney cashmere turtleneck (with unbelievably exaggerated shoulders) is $1,490. Ralph Lauren’s cashmere dress is a relative bargain at $2,690. A Brunello Cuccinelli (always overpriced, or at least really expensive) cashmere sweater is $2,900. And his pants!!! Black wool with feather and paillette “detailing,” $9,595.
Speaking of cashmere sweaters and pants (in leather, not feathers), in the past two weeks, I’ve been looking over the contents of my closet and thinking about what key pieces I’d want for updates—for going out to dinner, a casual party or a weekend in NYC. Phoebe Philo’s latest send included a gorgeous cashmere crewneck–for $2,400. Could I score a similar look for less? Leather pants don’t seem as popular as they were last year. Would the prices be lower? Not the buttery soft ones from Lafayette 148 New York; they’re an investment at $2,500. Should I go faux again?
Finally, just for fun, I also compared a few pairs of the season’s shoe obsession: boat loafers.
Below, the cashmere sweaters, leather pants and shoes that caught my attention:
“Scotland and Italy have been producing the highest quality cashmere garments for a long time and as a result of their experience and know-how, the quality of garments produced in [these countries] can typically be relied upon,” said Jim Coleman of the Cashmere and Camel Hair Manufacturers Institute (CCMI) in an e-mail. This 100% cashmere, 8-ply pullover is also dyed, woven and finished in the mills of Scotland’s Johnstons of Elgin, a 226-year-old family biz. A word about ply: Weight is important in the cost of a cashmere sweater. The heavier the sweater, the more expensive it is. Says Coleman, “An 8-ply garment might be ‘stronger’ than a 2-ply one because there are 8 strands of yarn contributing to the overall strength but what affects the cost is its weight. ” Also available in a russet brown, this ribbed sweater sells for $1,300.
La Ligne’s customer service was vague about where the fabric for this sweater comes from. However, it’s 100% cashmere and 2-ply, which is sufficiently strong. The lower ply means it’s not as weighty as the other sweaters but it’s also less expensive ($325). The Mini Toujours is available in 10 other colors.
Made in Italy from 95% recycled cashmere and 5% recycled wool, this ribbed sweater from Another Tomorrow has a similar but not as sumptuous look as Phoebe Philo’s. Also available in orchid pink, it sells for $650 at Neiman Marcus.
Designed by the high priestess of fashion for women with great taste and even bigger pocketbooks, this lush-looking cashmere pullover with generous raglan sleeves (good for layering underneath) is also long enough to cover the tush. Made in Italy, known for high-quality cashmere, it’s a tightly woven knit. According to CCMI, “loosely knit, limp fabric is the hallmark of a cheaply made sweater.” The pullover, which is also available in black, sells for a wallet-crushing $2,400. NB: the model is wearing a size large.
This boxy-fit, 5-ply pullover from TWP (named after its founder, Trish Wescott Pound) is produced and manufactured in China, which isn’t necessarily a bad sign. According to Coleman, China now produces over 80% of all the cashmere imported into the U.S., and many of the Chinese knitting factories can produce high-quality garments like Italy and Scotland. The boy crew sells for $795.
Spanx is in the business of sculpting and shaping figures, which, in addition to the price is what tempts me to buy these leggings. I also like the cropped length, which makes a winning look topped with a long, slightly bulky sweater for balance. The pants sell for $150 at Net A Porter.
Like buttah. That’s how these Lafayette 148 New York trouser-style pants should feel. Used to make high-end clothing, nappa leather is smooth, shiny, durable—and pricey. Because of the straight, full-leg silhouette, I’d pair with a tailored top. And, if I were feeling flush, I’d opt for the matching shirt jacket. Also available in two other colors, the pants sell for $2,498.
Because I’m planning a trip Down Under, I’ve been looking at Australian brands lately. St. Agni is one with a less-is-more mantra— similar to The Row but at a lower price point. These straight-leg, low-rise pants with a zipper at the back, made from supple lamb leather sell for $755.
SPRWMN (pronounced superwoman) specializes in leather (and suede) staples, such as these pleated pants in lambskin. The pants, which sell for $825—reduced from $1,375—are also available in two other colors. Note that real leather gives, so if you’re in between, say a 10 and a 12, take the 10.
A couple of years ago I bought a pair of oversize faux leather pants from the Frankie Shop that I continue to wear. They don’t have the same supple feel as my real leather jacket from Dennis Basso, but they’re comfortable and I always get compliments when I wear them. That said, they’re a tad baggy on me, so I am on the lookout for something more fitted. These high-rise, wide-leg dark pants from Rag & Bone sell for $318 at Bloomingdale’s.
Preppy boat shoes go in and out of style, but I do remember a friend of mine once laughing when I wore a corduroy midi skirt with them. This spring, the nautical style has again come into fashion, selling out ever since Miu Miu showed its take on the shoes for a runway show. Jeffrey Campbell’s version, with leather upper and lining and a synthetic sole, is sold out in brown but still available in white (for next spring?) from Bloomingdale’s for $165.
Similar to the Jeffrey Campbell ones above except without the gold-tone eyelets, these from Steve Madden are available in dark brown for $99.95 at Zappos.
Fashion folks have been gushing over this version from Bally, which is routinely sold out. They sell for a whopping $950.
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A trifecta of white shirts (left to right) from Pour Les Femmes, Sandro and Massimo Dutti.
By Janet Kelly
YOU NEVER know where or when you’ll spot a glimpse of great style. I was at a wake a couple of days ago when my eye zeroed in on a tall young woman wearing a collarless white shirt with billowy sleeves. Leaving a couple of top buttons undone, she cinched the shirt with a thin belt around her waist, leaving the rest to fall loosely over a pair of trim black pants. This wasn’t a look for everyone—it helped that she was lanky and wore her hair in a high pony tail to flatter her long neck. I’m telling you this because it got me thinking about white shirts in general.
Like Paris, a white shirt is always a good idea. White goes with every other color, and classic button-downs, such as the ones from J. Crew and Brooks Brothers, never go out of fashion. Still, every wardrobe staple needs an update from time to time, and this fall there are many to choose from. Sparkly embellishments, puffed and billowy sleeves, shawl and Peter Pan collars and lacy details are some of the ways new versions of the white shirt are shaking up the old.
One of J. Crew’s signature button-downs, the Garçon is a happy medium between oversize and fitted. Made of crisp cotton poplin, it’s available in a wide range of sizes (00 to 24), plus petite and tall. It sells for $98.
I asked my colleague, Nancy McKeon, who has seven (two sleeveless), what she likes about this non-iron Foxcroft shirt: “First, I like the crisp look. Second, I appreciate the white against my face; crisp and white together light up my complexion, which can always use light. Third, they really do come out of the clothes dryer ready to wear. You have to pluck them out immediately, nonetheless they’re ready to go.” It sells for $88.
I first discovered Massimo Dutti in Milan about 10 years ago and have been a fan ever since. The label has a knack for tweaking the classics just right. Case in point: the shawl collar, hidden placket and curved hem that give this button-down a shot of personality. It sells for $99.90.
An offshoot of Comme Des Garçons, the “Girl” line combines the architecture of the main collection with a feminine twist, as on this shirt with a double-layer Peter Pan collar and curved hem. It sells for $311 at Farfetch.
Part of Spanish megabrand Mango’s New Now collection, this dreamy blouse ($79.99) hints at the return of boho and maybe an end to or an evolution from the stealth-wealth look.
Over the years I have worn many white Brooks Brothers button-downs. Currently I own two in shiny stretch Supima® cotton—one’s a straight cut (see above) and one’s oversize; both are non-iron. That non-iron feature is a blessing to those of us who don’t want to send clothes to the cleaner but like having shirts that look pressed and ready to wear, straight from the dryer. This classic silhouette shirt sells for $118.
Like Nancy, I appreciate white for the light it brings to my face. For doubling down on that light, I’d go for this shirt with twinkly rhinestones that I’d wear with a pleated skirt or to dress up jeans. For head-to-toe sparkle, add shiny shoes. The puff-sleeve blouse sells for $262 at Farfetch.
If this oversize, poet blouse with wide, pleated sleeves looks super comfy, it’s because the label, Pour Les Femmes, co-founded by actor Robin Wright and designer Karen Fowler, mostly makes luxe, lightweight pajamas. It sells for $175.
Like lots of denim brands these days, Paige has expanded into clothing, including this striped silk shirt. I like the idea of pairing a soft, luxurious material with the roughness of jeans, but this elegant shirt will also go with any other bottom in your wardrobe. It sells for $299.
Sandro takes the Parisian schoolgirl cliché and tweaks it for grownup girls with rhinestones circling the neck of this blouse and a sporty cropped hemline. It’s $370 at Farfetch.
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From left to right: Mother’s wide-leg jeans, a high-rise, slim option from Everlane and a low-rise style from AG.
By Janet Kelly
SOME THINGS never change. One of those is that a great pair of jeans is a wardrobe non-negotiable. Now that the weather is showing signs of cooling, I’m assessing my denim needs, considering my past hits and misses. My favorite Mother straight-leg jeans are bagging out at the knees (methinks the result of too much washing); another pair of Mother’s has too-flared a leg and is also too big at the waist. My faded black Levis are kind of meh, strictly for home office wear. I did, however, strike gold last season with a “high-rise, ‘90s fit” from Gap.
Finding the most flattering jeans for your figure is challenging—kind of like finding the right mate, but instead of kissing a lot of frogs, you have to try on a lot of styles—straight leg, wide leg, slim leg, flare, barrel leg and, yes, skinnies are still around. And then there’s the question of rise: High-rise styles that hit an inch or two above the belly button have been popular for a while now. Most versatile are mid-rises that hit at or just below the belly button; low-rises (not as extreme as in past versions) sit just below the hips. All jeans stretch, but 100% cotton denim (also called rigid denim) has the least amount of give. Denim made with 1-2% of a stretch fabric will have some give. For a lot of stretch, look for 3% or more. When deciding on wash, the rule of thumb is darker washes are dressier than lighter ones.
Finally, as I’ve written previously and which bears repeating is this: The deciding factor in buying jeans is how good they make your rear end look. To achieve that, the bottom of the back pocket should hit right where you rear cheek and your thigh meet.
Got all that? Below are 10 silhouettes to consider.
I really like the look of these Mother jeans. They have a wide leg but not too wide a leg, and the rise hits just above the navel so I could wear them with a cropped sweater to cover any escaping belly flesh. My nitpick is the $258 price tag, which is not out of whack for jeans these days, but still . . . .
Barrel-leg jeans can look clownish. These—from Madewell—don’t. They’re cut to sit at the waist. Those darts? They’re there for making the pants contour to the body. A button fly is not for everyone, though.
These Everlane jeans will appeal to grown-up girls without a lot of curves. Add volume on top with a jacket or slouchy sweater. In addition to black, they’re available in five other colors.
Low-rise jeans have made a comeback, but today’s variation, which hits right at or just below the hips—doesn’t sit as crazy low as you may remember. Cover up any hint of a bare midriff with a turtleneck and vest or a T-shirt and sweater. These from AG are now selling for $157.50, reduced from $225 at Bloomingdale’s.
I’d wear these mid-rise jeans (the waist hits at your belly button) with a tucked-in, oversize button-down to balance the tapered leg. They also come in three other colors.
I’m not a great fan of jeans that widen a lot from the knee to the ankle, but what makes it work here is the subtle flare and cropped leg. Besides the throwback color, aptly named collegiate blue, they come in three other hues.
Fitted at the waist and slouchy in the thighs and legs, these remind me of an old pair of “boyfriend” jeans I loved from 7 for All Mankind. Note to self: they’re made of non-stretch denim. (Reviews on the Anthropologie site suggest sizing down.)
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Left: Presidential candidate Kamala Harris at the Democratic National Convention (DNC)/ photo from @kamalaharris Instagram account. Right: Former First Lady Michelle Obama at the DNC/ photo from @michelleobama Instagram account.
By Janet Kelly
“SHE’S wearing a black suit,” declared my husband, referring to Kamala Harris’s attire on the final night of the Democratic National Convention. Soon after a friend texted me, “What do you think of Kamala’s black suit?”
“It’s NAVY,” I told them as I noted that Harris’s custom Chloé suit and crêpe de chine blouse were the same color as Michelle Obama’s Monse jacket and pants. Is navy the new black? Dunno, but navy is a formal, serious color without being funereal, never mind draining for faces of grown-up girls. It suited 50-somethings Harris and Obama, who gave powerful speeches while looking confident and in command.
That got me to thinking about fall wardrobe updates. Black is not going away anytime soon (my black jackets are in no danger of being tossed), but for the nonce navy’s on my mind.
Here’s what I want for fall—a suit for many occasions. It’s structured and polished but still wearable with sneakers. Me +Em’s blazer is $545; the coordinating straight crop pant is $227.50.
Michelle Obama paired her powerful words with a deconstructed men’s suit from Monse’s 2025 Resort collection at the Democratic National Convention in Chicago.
AJLT it feels like fall this week, and I can her my mother talking about what to wear when the seasons change. I might even welcome raindrops in J. Crew’s new nylon trench ($328) in unexpected navy with bright white buttons and stitching.
Everlane Silky Cotton Relaxed Shirt Navy/Black
Michelle Obama gave the blessing to the black-and-blue combo with the cuffs on her midnight blue trousers. Feel free to do the same in Everlane’s snazzy shirt. It’s on sale for $66.
Miuccia Prada gave a thumbs-up to the return of the peacoat on both her Prada and Miu Miu fall 2024 runways. She showed them with a gray hoodie. I think I’ll do the same but save thousands with L.L. Bean’s version for $249.
I associate Vera Bradley with floral and paisley print bags, so I was surprised when a friend told me her bag I was admiring came from that same Vera. I like spacious totes but when I only need to carry a few essentials, I’d be happy to have this svelte crossbody belt bag ($40).
About five years ago, my husband said he had enough navy blue sweaters and passed this one to me. I still love wearing it with a white T-shirt underneath and over jeans. It sells for $99 at Uniqlo. (BTW, Clare Wright Keller of Givenchy and Chloé fame has just been named Uniqlo’s creative director.)
I had been eyeing Ayr’s Voila pants in black silk, but Jenni Kayne’s high-waisted, wide-leg pleated pants come in more versatile navy for the same $295 price tag.
I’m always scrambling for something to wear for the Jewish holidays. This Nikki Chasin dress ($388) with a slightly oversize fit in heavyweight cotton will be perfect for early October. And it has pockets.
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THE LITTLE BIRDS are leaving the nest!
It’s unlikely you’ll run into yourself carrying this dimunitive handbag, distinguished by its textured, oversized rope accent.
