Every year I go looking for new patterns of my favorite plastic. Not that I buy many—I get just as much pleasure out of sharing them here. Go figure.
You’ll see vast differences in the prices of this colorful stuff, terrific for entertaining outdoors (or indoors, for that matter, if your neighbors wouldn’t gossip about you). It’s not just full-price store versus discount place. There are variations in the material and manufacture that can make a difference.
Our retail friend Joanie Ballard, who runs the sophisticated R.H. Ballard Shop & Gallery in Washington, Virginia (“Little Washington”), recently pointed out her favorite: Q Squared, which she has been selling at her store for several years. “Q Squared is heftier, more resilient, and has a high gloss and feels like handmade ceramic,” she said in an email, adding, “Customers are always surprised to find out it’s melamine.”
Home Depot and Bed Bath and Beyond have caught on. The Q Squared “Portsmouth” dinnerware is sold through Home Depot’s home-decor catalogue. Joanie sells primarily the elegant, go-anywhere white Ruffle Collection. The white Ruffle platter can be found at Bed Bath.
(For all its sophistication, because it’s a tiny boutique, R.H. Ballard can’t afford to sell the Q Squared collection online—shipping costs are prohibitive. But the shop is a terrific detour if you get a chance to explore the little town [“First Washington,” the older residents like to call it because George Washington performed its official survey long, long before he became General Washington, President Washington and Father of His Country].)
Because it’s a summer natural, melamine dinnerware decoration tends to run to watery blue and white, with some breaks for vivid ikat designs and traditional Portuguese and Italian pottery motifs. You’ll find lots to choose from at Target, Sur La Table, Williams-Sonoma—even, MLB reader Nancy Gold told us, the Christmas Tree Shops!
Here are the versions we fell for this Melamine Season. Most of them have additional coordinating pieces, and some are available as complete dinner sets, so what we’re showing here is just a sampling.
—Nancy McKeon
This 16-inch-diameter Lastra fish platter from Vietri is $74 at Neiman Marcus.
It’s Mackenzie-Childs, so of course it’s a wild ride. The “Florabundance” collection includes dinner plates (large image), 4 for $62 at Neiman Marcus, and many coordinating pieces.
Billionaire heiress/designer Aerin Lauder shares her sense of style with this large (17.5-by-12.5-inch) blue-and-white Aerin “Fairfield” outdoor platter. It’s $23.96 at Williams-Sonoma.
Left: Aerin Lauder’s “Fairfield” collection includes this large (5.75-inch diameter) dip bowl, one of a set of four in coordinating blue-and-white patterns, $25.56 for the set at Williams-Sonoma. Right: Juliska’s “Splatter and Spin” 11-inch-diameter dinner plates are $18 apiece at Neiman Marcus. Coordinating salad plates (a little blotchier) are $16 each.
Melamine dishes and sparkling acrylic “Tritan” tumblers, both by Q Squared, at the Little Washington, Virginia, shop of Joanie Ballard, RHBallard. The image at right is of her Fourth of July display. Unfortunately, the shop cannot sell these heavy items online. Some can be purchased at the Q Squared online shop. / Photo by Joanie Ballard.
From Q Squared’s Ruffle Collection, this handy (and elegant) 14-by-20-inch platter is $51.99 at Bed Bath & Beyond.
Target has tons of colorful, more traditional melamine dish sets. These offbeat newcomers are “Serape,” right, from Certified International (3-piece appetizer set, $44.99) and, left, “Minecraft” from Zak Designs (10-inch kid’s dinner plate, $3.49).
A modern take on melamine are these rounded-off Room Essentials’s “Indigo Polka Dot” plates: 8.5-inch salad plate, far left, $1.79 each at Target; 10.5-inch dinner plate, $1.99 each at Target. Also at Target, “Suzani Geometric” dinnerware, a set of 4 salad plates, $12.99.
Threshold makes these blue-and-white Japanese-style Shibori plates with their handmade-looking irregular round shape. The 7.75-inch salad plates are on sale for $1.86 each at Target. The 10.5-inch Shibori dinner plates are on sale for $2.24 each, also at Target. There are additional coordinating pieces as well.
Where would summer entertaining be without some nautical notes? Here, from Q Squared, the “Portsmouth” salad plates, left, 4 for $47.97, and “Portsmouth” dinner plates, right, 4 for $55.97. All through Home Depot’s home catalogue.
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Streamed green beans with feta, lemon zest and olive oil. / Photo by Stephanie Sedgwick.
MY DINNER STRATEGY starts and ends with having plenty of ingredients on hand. If I have a few key items I can always make dinner. In the summer, feta is one of those must-haves.
When, I come home from the farm market with a bag full of tomatoes, it’s time for angel hair pasta, tomato and feta salad with lemon zest and juice, lots of olive oil and salt and freshly ground pepper
Or, when it’s green beans I’ve picked up, I make a simple salad from steamed green beans mixed with lemon zest, crumbled feta, olive oil and salt and freshly ground pepper.
How about summer squash? Slice the squash lengthwise. Brush with olive oil and sprinkle with salt and pepper. Grill until just tender. Slice into thick matchsticks and toss with fresh chopped herbs, crumbled feta, a splash of balsamic vinegar, olive oil and salt and freshly ground pepper.
Need a dish for a potluck? One of my alltime favorites is couscous with chickpeas, feta and scallions. Cook the couscous and fluff according to package directions. Mix with cooked or rinsed canned chickpeas, sliced scallions, crumbled feta, chopped parsley and/or dill, plus lemon juice and zest, olive oil and salt and freshly ground pepper.
And yes, I use a lot of lemon. Lemon + Feta = Good.
How about a quick hors d’oeuvre? Open up a pita loaf and separate it into two single-layer rounds and cut each round into bite-size pita chips. Brush with olive oil and sprinkle with salt and pepper. Place in a single layer on a rimmed cookie sheet, preferably lined with parchment or aluminum foil for easy cleanup. Pop into a 350-degree oven for 5 minutes. Toss diced tomatoes with salt, pepper, a little olive oil and some chopped basil. Take the pita chips out of the oven, top with each with some of the tomato mixture and some crumbled feta. Place the pan back in the oven, raise the heat to 400 degrees, and bake until the feta just starts to brown.
—Stephanie Witt Sedgwick
LittleBird “Stephanie Cooks” keeps those meal ideas coming, every Monday.
IT DOESN’T have to cost a lot to have fun—though have you looked at the ticket price for Disney World lately? (A one-day Magic Kingdom pass is about $125 for an adult, slightly less for a child.)
Fun on your feet, on the other, um, hand, can be had for less—or for a lot, lot more.
Maybe you take your wardrobe too seriously to wear T-shirts with messages on them, even at the gym. And maybe your dignity is more important to you than a giggle or two during the day. But for some of us, every once in a while, a chuckle is in order.
Herewith, some possibilities of the season. At least they do the job for me.
—Nancy McKeon
From Del Toro, the food trends of the moment . . . underfoot. Left: embroidered “Avocado & Toast” slippers. They’re $425, exclusive to ModaOperandi, and come in pale blue or black velvet. Right: the embroidered “Dumpling Slipper,” in pink or black velvet, $425 at ModaOperandi. The site also has Del Toro’s Chicken & Waffles, Sushi, Cookies & Milk, Burger & Fries, Pizza & Beer, Bacon & Eggs, Wine & Cheese and Taco & Tabasco slippers!
Left: Here, here! These “Leni” espadrilles from Circus by Sam Edelman recommend Rosé All Day, and we couldn’t agree more. They’re reduced to $44.99 at Macys. Right: Soludos calls these Smoking Slippers, but they’re really embroidered espadrilles. “A La Plage” is $75 at Zappos. (For those of you who studied Spanish or German, “à la plage” means at or to the beach.)
Shiny yellow patent-leather “Go Taxi” flats are Kate Spade New York’s contribution to walking and the urban lifestyle. They’re $278 at Kate Spade.
Right: Soludos also has a take on taxis. The embroidered espadrille is $75 at Gilt. Left: From Toms, Cinderella’s glass slippers deconstructed as an alpargata, or espadrille. They’re $74.95, come in grownup-girl sizes and are part of the Disney collaboration with Toms.
Left: Just the thing for the rural lifestyle—mules and roosters and hens, right? Well, these printed-velvet mules are by Dolce & Gabbana and are $995 at ModaOperandi. Note: The same barnyard fowl showed up on a lot of bags and clothing from D&G’s pre-fall 2018 collection. Right: From Soludos, “Teddy and Gigi” embroidered espadrilles, $75 at Shopbop. Woof-woof.
Christian Louboutin’s “Dandy Love” red-sole suede loafer comes with all-red patent-leather writing, left, for $945 at Bergdorf Goodman; or with a multicolored message, right, for $995 at Christian Louboutin.
Feeling empowered? The “Vans X Marvel” slide in black and white features the women of the Marvel comic universe. The straps and molded footbed are imitation leather, $40 at Vans.
From Ugg, the “Cindi” sandal is an explosion of yarn on a cork sole. It comes in black, red, black-and-white, dark denim and soft ochre. $130 at ugg.com.
The “Beach Please” clear-vinyl slide with molded cork footbed from Schutz is $130 at Bergdorf Goodman. The message is “written” in silvery chains.
Sanayi 313’s “Iris” slippers have raffia uppers and are embellished (we should say so!) with tassels and seashells. They’ve been reduced to $419 at ModaOperandi.
Now, these shoes don’t make me giggle, they make me gasp. But really, the “Babouchkaflor” mule is the footwear equivalent of that amazing $53,000 Dolce & Gabbana flower-studded coat Melania Trump wore in Italy, right? These are from Christian Louboutin and they’re “only” $2,345 at Christian Louboutin.
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The tent for Dinner Under the Stars was set on the Arboretum’s central lawn. / Photo by James Pleasant.
A glorious June evening, still light out, greeted dinner guests. / Photo by James Pleasant.
Good to know: Lovers of trees and flowers also appreciate great desserts. / Photo by James Pleasant.
The highest level of contributors belong to the David Fairchild Society, named for the founder of the Arboretum. / Photo by James Pleasant.
The Corinthian columns on the Arboretum grounds were part of the US Capitol from 1828 to 1958. / Photo by James Pleasant.
THIS WAS our maiden voyage, virgins we were, and this was our deflowering, so to speak.
The Prince and I were at the annual Dinner Under the Stars at the US National Arboretum, the 446-acre garden wonderland tucked in an unlikely pocket between New York Avenue and Bladensburg Road, NE.*
On perhaps the single most gorgeous June evening ever seen in Washington, brilliantly sunny and just shy of cool, the men looked spiffy, the woman wore light wraps over their summer frocks and palazzo pants (that would be me), and there were more oysters than I’ve ever seen in my life. Shrimp too.
Thankfully, I didn’t have a scotch. The last time I mixed scotch and shellfish my eyes were swollen shut the next morning. Glued down so hard I needed to pry them open with my fingers. An allergy, who knew? That was, I think, an informative aside.
Cocktails and appetizers were served in the Herb Garden, a lovely scallop of gardens surrounding a central lawn, each scallop devoted to a variety of culinary, ornamental or medicinal herb. Set adjacent to the rose garden, where 100 types of roses mingle with pots of jasmine and oranges, the beginning of this shebang was a complete sensory overload.
Cathy Kerkam, director of philanthropy for the Friends of the National Arboretum (FONA), said she glanced around the crowd of about 650 exceptionally happy guests and thought, “Oh my god, this is a knock-out.” It was the first time the center lawn of the herb garden had been used for the event, and the first time oysters were served. It won’t be the last, she assured me.
Then came crab cakes . . . and this and that other stuff with veggies for the rabbits among us, no offense. Did I mention it was a buffet? Thankfully, I had an elastic waistband. Dinner was served under a tent on a lawn sloped down from the Capitol columns, a necessity given the uncertainty of the weather this spring.
Now in its 24th year, Dinner Under the Stars honored New Jersey congressman Rodney Frelinghuysen for his advocacy of the Arboretum. VIP guests, of which there were many, included Secretary of Agriculture Sonny Perdue, the Arboretum being one of the U.S. Department of Agriculture’s premier research and educational facilities, as well as a glorious series of gardens.
The speeches were painless and easily washed down by endless wine, and then dessert was served amid the 22 Corinthian columns that were part of the U.S. Capitol from 1828 to 1958.
Dinner Under the Stars, a major fundraiser for the organization, is open to all members and guests. Ticket prices start at $250, which is—we’ve calculated this for you—100 oysters at Hanks Oyster bar in Washington.
For $50,000 you get a table for 10 that includes VIP guests. How many oysters is that?
FONA, which was founded in the 1980s has more than 1,000 members, said Kerkam. The primary private partner in the Arboretum provides direct financial support for major projects and organizes public programs such as the free Summer Concert Series, and the nearly-impossible-to-book Full Moon Hikes (which are exactly what they sound like: escorted hikes around the Arboretum grounds on nights when there’s a full moon).
Membership starts at $35 per year and includes a subscription to the excellent quarterly newsletter, invitations to member-only events, discounts on programs and discounts at more than 300 gardens across the country.
The highest membership circle is the David Fairchild Society, named for the Arboretum’s founder, plant explorer and pathologist, who introduced us to the avocado, among other of life’s essentials, and promoted the acquisition of our splendid cherry trees from Japan.
With a level of donation starting at $1,200, these super-members help fund major projects while enjoying benefits that include exclusive, behind the scenes, tours and events.
For more information on FONA programs and membership, visit www.fona.org
* Birder alert! Did you know that the Arboretum is also the home to four bald eagles: Mr. President, Mrs. First Lady and two eaglets hatched in May? Take your binoculars and a camera.
—Stephanie Cavanaugh
End Note: A special thanks to Elizabeth Dugan, who hosted us at her table, a particularly convivial bunch of friends and family.
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It’s pasta salad time. Just remember to combine ingredients you already know go well together. / iStock photo.
SUMMER’S NOT my favorite cooking season. I know the season is great for fresh ingredients with the farm markets overflowing with local produce and herbs, blah, blah, but summer cooking makes me hot, hot. In my house the kitchen is on the top level, and by late afternoon, the last thing I want to do is add any extra heat by turning on the stove.
Yes, we grill, but it’s pretty hard to make a complete meal on the grill, not to mention it gets pretty hot standing at the grill. My solution, besides take-out, is to make as much of the meal as I can in the morning. Cue the pasta salad. I can make one in the morning, tuck it away in the fridge and serve at dinner time. Add a grilled protein of choice, or not, and we’ve got a dinner we can enjoy in the still-cool house.
I follow a few basic principles. Pasta salads should be composed with thought; they are not a dumping ground for leftover ingredients from other dishes. Avoid fusion confusion: Combine ingredients you already know go together. Experiment to find the pasta shape you like. And, lastly, let the salad warm up to room temperature before serving.
Some of my favorites:
Smoked Mozzarella, Grilled Zucchini and Roasted Red Bell Peppers Pasta Salad: So simple. Cook the pasta according to package directions and rinse with cool water. Grill zucchini slices rubbed with olive oil, salt and pepper. Roast, peel and seed red bell peppers or buy a jar already prepared, Cut the zucchini and peppers into small squares. Cut the smoked mozzarella into cubes about the same size. Mix everything together with olive oil, red wine vinegar and salt and pepper to taste.
Lemony Tuna and Chickpea Pasta Salad: Cook the pasta according to package directions and rinse with cold water. Drain and flake the tuna. Drain and rinse the chickpeas, if using canned. Mix the tuna, chickpeas and cooked pasta together. Add chopped parsley, lemon zest, lemon juice, olive oil and salt and pepper to taste.
Caprese Pasta Salad: Cook the pasta according to package directions. Cut fresh mozzarella into small cubes. Dice whole tomatoes, peeled and seeded if desired, or quarter or halve cherry tomatoes. Mix the pasta with the mozzarella, tomatoes, lots of chopped basil, olive oil, balsamic vinegar and salt and pepper to taste. The balsamic will make the pasta look a little brown, but it will taste great.
—Stephanie Witt Sedgwick
LittleBird “Stephanie Cooks” reports from her kitchen every Monday.
The hydrangea named Alice. / Photo by Stephanie Cavanaugh.
I HAVE a new hydrangea. I think I’ll call her Alice.
I didn’t need another hydrangea; we already have two: Phyllis and Margot, whom I’ve discussed before. Then Baby gave me three more this spring, from her own garden in Raleigh, North Carolina, Home of the Deep Fried HoHo. These I haven’t bothered to name because, technically, they’re still hers and will be returned to her when she and her Personal Prince Pete move to their new house in the fall. In reality, this is probably not going to happen, returning the hydrangeas I mean, as they appear quite happy in the front yard and I’m certain Baby will agree to leave them once she sees how content and perky they are.
The Prince and I were visiting friends Alice and Robert at their weekend place overlooking the Chesapeake Bay. Alice is the mother of Baby’s first boyfriend; after so many years I suppose we’re unlaws. Robert, a multilingual classics professor, who can be intimidating at times, is Alice’s permanent live-in beau.
Anyway, Alice and I were tootling around on Saturday afternoon, visiting an antiques mall where I avoided buying a stained-glass lampshade and a bronze monkey lamp. I already have one of those. I did buy a zip-lock package of gold-metal hoop earrings that were $2, less 25%, plus tax, because the person who had the stall was running a sale. I didn’t need the earrings—there are singles of hoops lying all over the house—but rather than matching them with their mates it seemed easier to buy two that were still in sets. You know?
As we were leaving the mall we tripped across this produce stand that also sold plants and flowers, or vice versa. It could have been a garden stand with tomatoes, you know?
So there I was, squishing about in the rain-soggy ground, examining the this and the that, when I came across this lone hydrangea, a particularly large one with many white flowers that resembled snowballs. In fact I thought it was a snowball, something I’ve pined for but somehow never bought. But the young woman in charge, who did not strike me as particularly trustworthy, although that is neither here nor there, said it was a hydrangea. When I asked her, “How much?” she said $25, and calculating in my head what a garden center closer to town might charge and mentally tripling that number, I said: “I’ll take it. Can you carry it to the car for me?” This because I was feeling especially limp from the damp.
She, being very young, and assuming I was very old and incapable (don’t push me, honey), lifted it to schlep across the marshy field and deposited it beside the car.
Overall, it was a calming trip. There was no newspaper and we did not discuss politics until Sunday brunch, which just does not happen in the city. Instead we discussed cheerier subjects such as lung cancer (but she was cured!) and lasering eyeballs.
After we ate, we packed our bags and hoisted Alice, the hydrangea not the person, into the back of the truck and drove home.
This morning I was looking at Alice, sitting in the path to the garage (aka the carriage house, or vice versa), and wondered where the hell I was going to put her. This garden is the sort one measures in square feet, with a ruler, not in fractions of an acre. Where does one put six hydrangeas and still leave space for, among other things, the jasmines, a soon-to-be 30-foot white bird of paradise, the lemon and hibiscus, and seven elephant ears that managed to survive the winter despite, or perhaps because of, my neglect. I just do not know anymore.
I am done buying plants, really. I am done.
—Stephanie Cavanaugh
LittleBird “Stephanie Gardens” cultivates her garden and reports back every Thursday. We doubt very much that she’s done buying plants.
A refreshing shrimp, orange and avocado salad. / Photo by Stephanie Witt Sedgwick.
MY LOVE AFFAIRwith the avocado began 24 years ago. It’s easy to remember the date because my husband and I were on our honeymoon when the obsession hit. This new love entered my culinary life in Mexico City, and by the time we got to Puerto Vallarta, I was hooked.
It was easy to succumb, Avocados were everywhere, from the markets to almost every plate of food we were served. Between my eagerness to please my new husband, an avocado-lover from way back, and the onslaught of the thing, I gave in and tried some.
Love at first bite, enough said. Silky, fatty and light at the same time—you all know what I’m talking about—avocado instantly became a fave.
It’s been a love that hasn’t faded. Of course, I’ve made vats of guacamole, but where avocado has really made its mark on my table is as a salad ingredient. Avocado plays so well off of sharp flavors, like citrus, vinegar and spices. I leave a love of avocado toast to others; it’s fine, but what I really like is pairing avocados with strong partners. Here are a few of my ideas to add to your own avocado repertoire.
Avocado, Shrimp and Orange Salad: My favorite hot-weather salad main course. Chunks of avocado mixed with orange slices, steamed or boiled shrimp. Diced sweet onion and a dressing of fresh orange juice, olive oil, chopped chives and salt and pepper. If the orange juice isn’t that sweet, add a little sugar.
Avocado, Spicy Shrimp and Grilled Corn Salad: Rub peeled and deveined raw shrimp with a spice rub and oil. Grill until cooked through. Grill a few ears of corn using whichever method you like and cut the kernels off the cob as soon as the corn is cool enough to handle. Mix the grilled shrimp with diced avocado, the corn kernels, diced sweet onion and/or sweet red bell pepper. Add herbs as desired. Cooked black beans are a great addition too, but rinse thoroughly before adding, Dress with some apple-cider vinegar, olive oil and salt and pepper.
Chopped Avocado and Green Salad: This is a another nod to my husband, who has a much greater love of the green salad than I do. He loves a traditional green salad, me not so much, so I arrived at this compromise. I chop up a mix of bitter-ish greens—radicchio, escarole and the like. I cut the avocado similarly, into small matchsticks, the exact size and shape don’t matter much, and then I mix with a balsamic vinaigrette. Pair with a grilled steak and you’ve got dinner.
—Stephanie Witt Sedgwick
LittleBird “Stephanie Cooks” has good ideas for dinner more than once a week but she shares them with us on Mondays.
MY OLD-AGE PLAN involves getting a dog. But more about that in a sec.
Now, it’s exciting to be in the New York Times, even as a cog in the wheel of a demographic train that is rapidly gaining speed. I’m an “elder orphan”—no spouse, no kids, out here on my own.
What should I be doing about this? After all, it’s something that AARP takes quite seriously, as do all their advertisers for accident-monitoring devices and elder care and who knows what else (I actually don’t know what else: I tend to hang up as soon as I hear that fuzzy delay signaling a pitch from “James” in some call center in Mumbai).
I should get a dog, right? Just hang on another moment.
I grant that a one-level house would make sense, even though my sister has a friend who says that if she didn’t have stairs to climb she’d have fat thighs instead.
But I have my heart set not on a modest suburban rambler but a co-op apartment in a big city, in this case my native New York.
In the city I can give up driving. I love to drive, but at some point it really be won’t be a good thing, for me or the world around me. And what we New Yorkers call a “good building” will have staff to do things, including errands and walking the dog when I can’t or just don’t want to.
There, see, a dog!
I used to think New York was perfect for growing old because everything—from furniture to a bagel and coffee—could be delivered to your door. With the Internet, of course, that’s true just about everywhere, and I think a lot of us will be the better for it.
But here’s how greedy I am: I want the laundry and dry cleaner to deliver, too, and I want to shop for my groceries but have the supermarket deliver the heavy things by bike.
That’s actually pretty close to what marketers have been predicting for years: that as we age we buy fewer things and instead buy more services. I’m more than happy to oblige. And I’m willing to bet that the marketers are right, that I won’t be alone. The Times reported that by 2030 about 16 percent of women 80 to 84 will be childless, compared with about 12 percent in 2010, according to a 2013 report by AARP. I’m not near that age cohort yet, but then again I’m not getting younger.
My laundry list of wishes ignores, of course, the real world of possible ill health, of age-related difficulty in getting around and the high cost of whichever medicines I’ll have to take to keep my heart beating and my kidneys functioning.
What I want to concentrate on in my “young old age” is daily structure. So as I take aim at a new apartment, I’m looking at buildings that will accept that dog I want. Those whimpers and that look—you dog owners out there know what I’m talking about—are enough to get me out of bed at a reasonable hour.
Now this dog, this ideal dog, has to be kinda old, with a little less bounce in his step, just like his owner. I adopted my last dog, Jeremiah, at age 9 (his age, not mine), and we walked and walked around Washington DC for hours each day. He was big (a Saint Bernard mix) and slow, but the boy loved to amble, and so we did. Jeremiah died this past winter a month shy of 14, so I gave him five good years—and vice versa.
The dog and a city have one thing in common: walking. And you’re never alone with a dog, and the pup gives you cover to walk a little more slowly than the office-goers around you, and is a built-in ice breaker with people you don’t know, who are wandering around with their pups as well. There’s an entire world of dog owners, and I will be happy to be a part of it again.
Walking around the city is really just code for “getting out of the house.” The dog is only part of that. Joining something will be important too. I’ll be closer to family when I’m in New York, but maybe I will find a book club. Then there’s church—any church. And any number of charities—not the fancy ones whose events double as photo ops, but non-glamorous charities in need of worker bees. A city is full of those, and I think we’ve all learned by now that trying to do good for others in fact does us just as much good, even more.
Admittedly, this is not the most sensible or comprehensive plan for moving into old-old age on my own. But, I have a smartphone and a computer and a will and a trust agreement, and my siblings know where all my assets are. So with those things covered, I’m going to concentrate on living alone in the best possible way. And get a dog.
The dogwood path at the National Arboretum in Washington DC begins. / Photo by Stephanie Cavanaugh.
Blue Shadow Dogwood, seen at the National Arboretum in Washington DC. / Photos by Stephanie Cavanaugh.
The fountain at the end of the dogwood path. / Photo by Stephanie Cavanaugh.
Weaver’s Weeping Dogwood. / Photo by Stephanie Cavanaugh.
Lustgarten Weeping Dogwood. / Photo by Stephanie Cavanaugh.
Picnicking is allowed at the National Arboretum in Washington DC. See the next picture to see what the couple on the grass are gazing at, off in the distance on the far left. / Photo by Stephanie Cavanaugh.
These are original columns from the US Capitol. They date from 1828 and the old East Portico. The columns were removed when the Capitol building was expanded in 1958. / Photo by Stephanie Cavanaugh.
MICHAEL WAS RUNNING backwards up a hill at the National Arboretum in Washington DC, lean muscles glistening, as I race-walked in forward beside him. He was 19 and training to be a boxer.
“I want to drive to England,” he said, apropos of nothing.
“You can’t drive Michael,” I panted. “There’s an ocean between here and there.”
“I’ll take the bridge,” he said.
Michael, a high school graduate, was sadly under-educated yet so eager to learn. Later, I showed him a world map.
He and I were working for a remaindered-book company with a warehouse nearby; I handled sales to stores in New York and processed mail orders. He was in packing and shipping, the only one of that little cabal not terminally stoned.
The Arboretum was like a midday vacation someplace far away from the truck-roar grubbiness of Bladensburg Road and New York Avenue, where a motel a few blocks away did a big business in hourly room rentals.
This was another world, where the trees were tall and shaded the paths; the flowers were an ever-changing display: roses, azaleas, lilacs, peonies. We’d pause near the lake for sandwiches and look at the ducks.
I don’t know what became of Michael, but 35 years later the Arboretum is still magical, a vacation from stress and a place for dreams to romp.
If you have a convertible, it’s a fine place to drive about with the top down, though, no matter the vehicle, that’s always best done on a weekday—driving (or walking) on weekends can sometimes be as pleasurable as crossing the Bay Bridge on Friday afternoon. On weekdays the byways are quiet, you’re alone with the birds, and you can plant your face in a rose bush for an hour without feeling foolish.
The Prince and I were playing hookie the other day, grabbing a square inch of stray sunshine and heading off to see what was what.
Sadly, it was a day when the roses had just been sprayed and no nose-plant was possible so we tootled around in our ancient Mustang (a little battered and wheezy at 29 but still chugging along), passing the fading azaleas, the Asian gardens (we did those last trip), the conifers (sorry, boring) and on to the dogwoods, still in spectacular flower.
The Arboretum boasts a long dogwood flowering season, with 227 cornus (as the trees are formally grouped) beginning to bloom in March and continuing into June when the Chinese dogwoods cap off the season with their full and creamy blossoms. Even out of flower the trees are splendid, with red fruit emerging in summer and leaves that turn to coral, burgundy and red in the fall.
Though the oldest tree was planted in 1943, the group was formally designated as the Dogwood Collection in 1952, we’re told. The dogwoods now bound down a long grassy slope leading to the Anacostia River, which can be seen from two overlooks along the way. Some of the dogwoods are shrubby, others ballerina graceful; there’s a weeping variety, another is smooshed down flat-topped as if Zeus were pressing a heavenly hand upon its crown; and several giants appear to be pushing 30 feet. Neat markers, with each tree’s common and Latin names, are at the base of each trunk.
There are 96 varieties represented. As a group, dogwoods are not especially long-lived. Most of the collection dates only to the early 1990s and many trees are already approaching their sell-by date, to put it gently; a useful, though sad, detail if you currently have a mature dogwood or two cheering your own garden.
But under these branches you needn’t worry about life spans or maintenance. The pleasure is pure. Pack a brunch or lunch and settle in the grass, on one of the benches tucked amid the trees, or overlooking the river, or sit by the pond at the path’s terminus.
Take the pooch if you wish. It’s a dog meet dogwood world out there.
—Stephanie Cavanaugh
LittleBird “Stephanie Gardens” reports on the leafy world around her every Thursday.
The A. giganteum of Capitol Hill go bob-bob-bobbin’ along. / Photo by Stephanie Cavanaugh.
IT STOPPEDraining the other day, you may have noticed.
Along East Capitol Street in Washington DC, Capitol Hill’s Grand Boulevard, the gardens are a little overgrown and blown about from the downpours, but still splendid. The roses are outrageous this year, massive canes drooping under the weight of the flowers—and no sign of black spot, yet. The alliums (A. giganteum), which once again I forgot to plant, are up and their fluffy purple heads are the size of melons. Peonies are flopped over fences, fleshy pink petals dripping perfume.
I assure you that the Prince and I were neatly dressed when out for a stroll last Sunday evening. We were eyeing one such delightful display when the Lady of the Manor walking her no doubt inventively named and pricy mutt stopped on the sidewalk and glared at us. “What are you doing,” she growled, as if we were planning a petunia heist. “We’re just admiring,” I said in impossibly sweet response, as opposed to biting her head off as well as the dog’s. “Oh! Well, thank you,” she simpered, not in the least embarrassed, and sashayed into her manse.
Such a picture of innocence we were.
I’m not going to tell you where I pinched a bit of a plant commonly called twisted jasmine (more haughtily known as jasminum tortuosum), but there was no way I could resist. This is a jasmine unlike any I have sniffed, entirely without the slightly dirty tang most of these tropical plants have, a scent that always has me waffling between love and ugh, though I lean toward love. This smells of honeysuckle, clean and soft. If I hadn’t, shall we say, groomed it, I’d still be standing in this place I’m not telling you about with my nose buried in the blossoms.
You are a terrible person, I said to myself as I pinched. I know, I’m so ashamed, I murmured. But what can I do? I love it and I want it.
No! No! You mustn’t pick at people’s plants, I insisted. If everyone went about pinching off bits there’d be nothing to sniff, nothing to admire.
(Though of course they could come on-a my house . . . )
This is the last time, I swear it, I whispered as I surreptitiously tucked my little, really little, twiggy into my pocket.
Conducting an Internet Investigation at home I read that such jasmines are vigorous growers, clambering up into trees—at least in South Africa, where it is native—but hard to propagate. So while I’d dipped the stem of my foundling in rooting powder and tenderly tucked it up alongside one of my well-established, potted jasmines—kind of like the plant edition of one of those dogs you see online that adopt a baby ostrich—as backup I investigated actually buying the plant.
At Amazon, there was one on offer for 10 bucks, not a bad price, though not eligible for Prime so there was a modest shipping fee involved. But, in the fine print, the pot size was said to be 2½ inches. This gave me pause. I whipped out the ruler from my desk drawer, brushed off a desiccated jelly bean and marked the size with my fingernail. That is really small.
Another place offered one for just eight bucks, no size mentioned, shipping $17.
Perhaps I’ll call around to some local garden centers this weekend and see if I can find one, but in the meantime I’ll practice watchful waiting and root for my twig. Go, twig!
Last-minute update: It does appear a little splat this morning. Sigh. Serves me right, eh?
—Stephanie Cavanaugh
When LittleBird “Stephanie Gardens” isn’t purloining plants, she’s confessing it all to us on Thursdays.
Rub, rub, rub that chicken. / Photo by Stephanie Witt Sedgwick.
WHEN MY MOM wanted to make a quick dinner, which was almost always, she poured a bottle of Italian salad dressing over a shallow baking pan filled with bone-in, skin-on chicken-breast halves. (Raise your hand here if you know this dish because I bet a lot of you do.) The pan went right into the oven and, if she was feeling energetic, she might finish it under the broiler. Woo-hoo, dinner! It wasn’t bad, but it wasn’t great either.
Fast-forward a few decades and marinated, rubbed, seasoned chicken parts of all kinds are everywhere and I’m glad of it. As my mother knew too well, seasoned chicken makes a good dinner. Luckily, the old bottle of bad Italian dressing is gone, but the core idea is still around—well-seasoned chicken cooked quickly.
You can start with whatever cut of chicken you want. Boneless chicken-breast cutlets, chicken legs, chicken thighs, bone-in chicken halves all work. I favor removing the skin so you get maximum seasoning coverage, but it’s your chicken, do as you like. The key is to have a really flavorful wet rub that covers the chicken. Yes, I say rub because when you’re in hurry that’s what works. Liquidy marinades need some marinating time; wet rubs are a quicker seasoning choice.
My ideal timeline: Rub the chicken pieces, let them sit 20 minutes while the grill heats up, then grill until done.
Basically, you combine spices with a little oil and a splash of citrus or vinegar for a quick homemade rub. For example:
Southwest-style: Purée some chipotle in adobo with olive oil, a splash of lime juice, salt and pepper.
Provence-style: Purée fresh herbs with olive oil, Dijon-style mustard, salt and pepper.
Florida-style: Orange, lemon and/or lime zest with olive oil, cumin, salt and pepper, and a splash of citrus juice.
Or, sometimes better, find a prepared wet rub you like.
Whichever wet rub you choose or make, smear it all over the chicken pieces. Let them sit for 20 to 30 minutes. Cook over a medium-high grill, being careful to keep them from burning; you may have to move them between direct and indirect heat. And make plenty, because rubbed chicken makes great leftovers in sandwiches, salads or eaten as is.
One of the eggplant-purple window boxes affixed to the front of LittleBird Stephanie’s house. / Photo by Stephanie Cavanaugh.
THE FIRST RULE of window-box gardening is that most, if not all, of your plants should look good dead.
Once they go belly-up from whatever mishap happens—and they will happen—the departed should assume a grandly feathery wilt or be rigor-mortis stiff, making them easily spray-paintable, should you elect to do so.
Consider dried flowers, which are essentially the same thing: dead as door knobs, or is it door nails? Doesn’t matter, in either event they’re dead. People spend money on dried lavender and strawflowers and baby’s breath, fluffy pampas grass, eucalyptus and various reeds. They snap up dried hydrangeas and little pink roses. Any of these would look lovely living in your boxes. Why not have them simply die in situ?
The feng shui of living with the dead may be questionable, but needs must, as the Brits say.
At the moment I’m admiring my window boxes. They’re freshly planted for summer, with things I can name and things I cannot because I lost the tags. Everything is still quite lively.
As always, there’s a centerpiece, something that will grow tall, reflected in the window glass. This year I’m attempting asparagus fern. In front of that is acid-green sweet potato vine, which will drift down in a flurry of ruffles as the centerpiece (hopefully) lofts up and out. On either side are pink geraniums, purple wandering jew and bits of this and that I’m attempting to root. Small-leafed ivy drapes over the ends.
The deep purple paint on the window boxes needs a bit of a touch-up, but they’re still handsome enough that passersby lurch their baby buggies and bikes to a stop: “I love your window boxes,” they’ll sigh if they see me, and don’t I preen at the attention.
This is now, in earliest spring, when it’s all so fresh and the rains are pressing the flowers into a tropical growth spurt. Soon enough something will go kaput. No doubt that will happen late in June, when there’s little left at the garden centers. And so, one punts. Boxwood, I’ve found, can be sprayed green with remarkable verisimilitude.
Boxwood was the first of many centerpieces I tried. That was more than 20 years ago, after a trip to London, where the Prince and I had wandered dank dark March streets amazed at the spilling over of geraniums and ivy—punctuated with such lovely boxwood—from windows and rooflines. It was stunning against the gloomy sky of late winter, or early spring, however you want to call it. And I wanted them.
In an unusual turn, the Prince wanted them as much as I did, for he quickly set to with hammer and boards and made lovely deep and wide boxes for each of the five windows on the front of the house, then painted them eggplant to match the front door.
The scale of the boxes is Rule No. 2: Go as big as you possibly can. Those attractive clay planters that neatly rest on the windowsill with little support dry out within hours, making it impossible for normal people with normal things to do with their lives to maintain. When the weather grows hot, one has to hover above them with a watering can.
Ours are a decent size, measuring 31 inches across, 10 inches in height and 8 inches deep. While our windowsills are substantial, the boxes still need to be firmly attached to the bricks with iron supports, otherwise . . . not a pretty picture. This is not a project for amateurs.
Even given their largish scale, there are always plant casualties. Although, if I were, perhaps, more modest in my ambitions, not filling every iota of space with something, and managed to keep them watered and fed . . . I might have a better survival rate.
Watering happens to be Rule No. 3. No matter how big they are, these suckers dry out fast when the weather hits the 90s. Rule of thumb: Stick your finger in the soil every day and, if it’s dry, water.
Feeding them every so often doesn’t hurt either.
Not really a rule, just an aside: Always plant something sweet-smelling. There’s a particular purple petunia that’s glorious, but needs too much water for me to bother. Sniff the petunias, most have no scent. But those purples? Mmmm. I have better luck with moonflowers. I just poked in seed, though already-started plants are easy to come by. As they grow, they’ll tangle with the sweet potato vine and scent the evening air most delightfully, drifting through the house when the windows are open.
Sadly, moonflowers are not attractive when dead.
—Stephanie Cavanaugh
—LittleBird “Stephanie Gardens” cultivates her garden and reports back every Thursday.
IN LATE APRIL the fashion world lost haute-accessory designer Judith Leiber, she of the glittery little evening bags toted by First Ladies, socialites and women who don’t faint when paying $4,000 for an evening accessory. The bags are mostly minaudières, small hard-shell clutches meant to hold little more than a lipstick—often not even a cellphone with which to summon your driver at the end of the gala (or your reading glasses so you can see the screen!).
Leiber took minaudières way over the top, turning them into crystal-encrusted objets d’art, and whimsical art objects at that: glittery curled-up kitties, plump pink pigs, bashful penguins, a perky monkey, a full-blown rose, a cupcake—and a whole raft of crystal-encrusted boxes, round, square and rectangular.
Minaudières have been around since the 1930s, we learn from Wikipedia, when Charles Arpels (yes, of Van Cleef & Arpels) got the idea of a metal reticule that would carry a fashionable woman’s nécéssaires as well as serve as another piece of jewelry for an evening outfit.
Even with Leiber gone, at age 97, her brand lives on (she and artist husband Gerson Leiber sold it to investors some years back). Even better, there are minaudières at much gentler prices, almost as glittery and obviously inspired by Leiber’s stunners. No French bulldogs or cupcakes, but lots of gleam and glitter to light up the night.
—Nancy McKeon
Whiting & Davis’s “Charity Heart” minaudière in baby-pink mesh (with an optional snake-style chain) has a lot of look for $178 at Nordstrom.com. The company also allocates 25% of the purchase price to breast cancer research. Win, win.
Here’s a show-stopper in black and silvery sequins, the INC Cade clutch, designed for Macy’s. And, Macy’s says, it’s big enough to stow an iPhone 7! It’s $59.70 at Macys.com.
The Franckie Ombre box clutch, created by INC International Concepts for Macy’s, is now $59.70 at Macys.com.
A silvery mesh-covered canteen-style bag can be used with its wrist strap, over the shoulder with its chain—even as a crossbody bag. It’s by Whiting & Davis and is $255 at Nordstrom.com.
The shape’s the thing with the Jane clutch by Kayu, perfect for summer, day or night. Clutch or crossbody (there’s a chain tucked inside), the rattan minaudière is available in the natural tone shown or in summery white. It’s now $123 at Bloomingdales.com.
In gunmetal gray (the pale champagne shown is gone), this Shimmer Metal Minaudière from Estee & Lilly, with its crossbody-style chain, is a low-key but dressy way to go hands-free at the party. It’s $32.99 at Target.com.
Jeffrey Levinson’s Elina Pearl Gloss Clutch is made of aluminum and leather with a spectrum metallic finish. It comes in blue (shown), which shades to violet, and red, which glows in red and orange. It’s $1,250 at Nordstrom.com. Levinson’s Elina Electric variations come in an aluminum finish ($895) and an 18K-gold-covered aluminum ($1,550). Or if you really want to go for broke, there’s the gold-flecked finish ($4,250). All at Modaoperandi.com.
“So Kate” is a signature Louboutin pointy-toe stiletto, and “So Kate” is the patent-leather Kate-shaped minaudière from Louboutin (look closely at the flap of the baguette and you’ll see the “So Kate” silhouette, from Louboutin’s original drawing of the shoe). It comes in shiny black, nude or red and is $850 at Nordstrom.com.
From Nina, the “Gelsey” crystal-embellished minaudière will give off more light than the red-carpet photographers. It has a drop-in chain and can hold a pair of reading glasses! The bag is $125 at Nordstrom.com.
Silver crystals with a gunmetal-gray serpent closure, or black crystals with a brighter silver serpent. Either is a good choice for this INC Emileh clutch, created by International Concepts for Macy’s. In either color it’s now $40.23 at Macys.com and is also iPhone 7–friendly.
A handsome Deco-inspired box clutch faced with color-blocked metallic mesh is a tailored variant on the minaudière. By Whiting & Davis, it comes in black-multi (shown) and gold-multi. It’s $90 at Nordstrom.com.
From Edie Parker at Saks Fifth Avenue, the “Jean” glittered acrylic minaudière has one inside wall covered with mirror (to reflect the good time you’re having, maybe). It comes in glittery silver and glittery gold and is $895 at Saksfifthavenue.com.
In luscious navy, or champagne or glittery black, the INC Evie clutch has the shape of more expensive bags. Also iPhone 7–friendly, and with a drop-in chain, it’s currently $79.50 at Macys.com.
Okay, then! Here’s Kate Spade New York coming at you with a pineapple bag, woven leather on a solid frame. And it has a wrist strap so you don’t have to clutch it and look as if you’re at the farmers market for the entire party. It’s $398 at Katespade.com.
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Potato salad many ways: Stephanie’s Classic American, her Warm German, and Potato and Lentil Salad With a Mustard Dressing. / Photo by Stephanie Witt Sedgwick.
I ONCE HEARDWill Shortz, editor of the New York Times crossword puzzles, talking on NPR about solving puzzles. Shortz was asked if it were okay for solvers to look things up on search engines, and he gave a great reply: It’s their puzzle, they can solve it any way they want.
Shortz’s answer always comes to mind when I start discussing potato salads. Everyone seems to have their own concept of what constitutes a perfect potato salad—some more orthodox than others—and that’s okay. This past week at a potluck I was presented with an “authentic German potato salad.” The salad listed yogurt as one of the ingredients, making it my first experience with this version of German potato salad. At cooking school, one of the German chefs had made a warm German potato salad that had no dairy at all. American potato salad is no different, having many variants of a classic “American” version. My dad was a fan of a plain potato salad, seasoned with no more more than mayonnaise, salt and pepper. Some think it’s not a potato salad without chopped pickles or egg or onion or mayonnaise. You get the idea. I’m fine with them all!
The fact is potato salad is a classic and a terrific way to to complement grilled foods. If you have time to make it advance, a cold mayonnaise-dressed salad is great. If you’re short of time, a warm salad dressed with vinegar and oil works. I really like vinegar in my mayo-and-sour-cream-dressed salad, but you do as you like.
The same holds true for which potato to choose. I use whichever potatoes I have on hand. Sometimes I have bought baby potatoes hoping to roast them whole and they end up cut in half in a warm salad. Or if I have only baking potatoes, I’m careful not to overcook the potatoes, but they work fine. Yes, it’s terrific if I have red potatoes, since they hold their shape best, but do the best with what you have.
Here are my three faves:
Classic American Potato Salad, Stephanie-Style: Boil peeled potatoes; keep small ones whole, halve or quarter larger ones. Drain and cut the boiled potato chunks into relatively equal pieces while still warm. Sprinkle the pieces with apple cider vinegar. Let them sit about 10 minutes. MIx together 2 parts mayonnaise with 1 part sour cream. Season with Dijon-style mustard, salt and pepper. Add to the potatoes along with chopped chives and diced hard-cooked eggs. Mix gently to coat the potatoes. Top with more chopped chives. Serve right away, or refrigerate until ready to eat. Ideally, the salad should be brought to room temperature before serving.
Warm German Salad, Stephanie-Style: Boil red or waxy white potatoes with the skin on, just until tender. Drain the potatoes and let them sit for 10 minutes to cool slightly. While they are cooling, heat a generous amount of oil in a sauté pan. Add some diced onions and cook until the onions are soft but not browned. Take the pan off the heat. Add white vinegar and enough oil to make as much dressing as you need. The ratio should be 2 parts oil to 1 part vinegar. Add chopped herbs, and salt and pepper to taste. Peel the still-warm potatoes and cut into small chunks. Pour the dressing over. Toss to coat the potato chunks and serve warm.
Potato and Lentil Salad With a Mustard Dressing: Cook lentils until tender; drain and set aside. Boil small skin-on potatoes until just tender; fingerlings or baby potatoes are perfect. While the potatoes are boiling, make a mustard vinaigrette by mixing 1 part Dijon mustard with 1 part white-wine vinegar, salt and pepper to taste, chopped shallots and enough olive oil to make a dressing. When the potatoes are cooked through, drain and cut the small potatoes in half and quarter the larger ones. Place the potato chunks and the lentils in a large bowl. The amount of potatoes vis-à-vis lentils is up to you. Pour the dressing over the potatoes and lentils and toss to combine. Serve warm.
—Stephanie Witt Sedgwick
LittleBird “Stephanie Cooks” inspires meals every Monday.
MOTHER’S DAY, INDEED. It’s way overhyped, and most working moms (who are most moms these days) don’t get the day off no matter how many kisses are exchanged. What’s the use of a bottle of bubbly or a bouquet when the rent is due? I vote instead for National Grandmom (maybe even Grandparents) Day, which—surprise—has existed in this country since 1978, though Poland seems to have had one since 1965.
This nearly non-existent homage to the grandly titled among us is pegged for the first Sunday after Labor Day, if you care to know. Even better, in my mind, is the (yes!) National Gorgeous Grandma Day, happening each year for some reason on July 23. A white-haired lady on a motorcycle is the featured icon in one online tribute. Goodbye rocking chair, if it ever truly existed. Let’s hear it for the cared-for or the caregiver, whatever form she takes.
The demographics are a-changin’. Do I exaggerate? Society may be growing more grandmas than moms these days, as the population ages and the child-per-family numbers drop. I’m in this category, having been a late-age first-time mother at 40 (a single child) and only now in my 80s have become a first-time grandma of two. Takes the breath away sometimes thinking ahead, but it helps to plan soundly (futilely?) in the hope of seeing at least one of them finish college. To that end, I am a diligent exerciser and diet fiend. I do whatever might extend my life span and trust my genes will obey. Sorry to say I have not owned up to having white hair.
There is a lot of talk these days about the so-called New Grandparenting, part of the title of Lesley Stahl’s 2016 extolling the “Joys and Science” of her happy state. To her credit, she did not entirely gush her way through the experience, although she writes early on about being jolted, blindsided, “loving more intense than anything I could remember or had ever imagined.” That happened to her in January 2011 and a second time in 2013. Fortunately, she didn’t neglect the downside—grandparents raising children left to them through parental neglect or death, grandparents needing care themselves while having to care for little ones. Tough choices in many cases, now becoming a serious field of study.
Witness a note in the April Smithsonian magazine that caught my eye: that Robin Marantz Henig, science writer and former Guggenheim Fellow, plans her next book to be “a science-based look at grandmotherhood.” She isn’t the first to plum these depths, by any means. Studies have been done of what are called “grandparent genes”—how grandparents (face it, usually the grandmother) are genetically programmed to look after children in later life. Go Googling and check the history of such work.
Forget science for a minute. Fellow grandparents I know, who are happily in good shape and spirit, like talking about having a meaningful role in these young lives. They find meaning in the word “legacy.” One hopes to be remembered for being able to add “something only I can give,” experience and perspective the parents don’t have yet at this point in their lives. Being available to focus on the grandkids’ developing lives. One grandmom I know purposefully expands her grandchildren’s horizons by taking them places—trips abroad—they would not otherwise get to go.
That raises the question of what gets transferred from one generation to the next. The only grandmother I ever knew was the silent type; I don’t recall anything she ever said, to me or anyone else, though she was a figure in our household during my adolescence. (One remark she reportedly made to a relative was that she wished never to be buried next to her husband. If true, that would at least make her an interesting person to have known.)
My second grandchild was given my real first name, one I never have used, though it also belonged to my mother and grandmother. I trust and pray that any other legacy to her from me will go beyond that single flattering fact.
Designer Charlotte Moss says collages of images and colors she likes inspire her to great settings for great entertaining. It works for us lesser beings too. / Photo above and on the front from “Charlotte Moss Entertains” (Rizzoli, $50).
I AM NOT a fan of Pinterest, that cyberspace bulletin board where people stick photos of their every material desire.
Yes, there’s a great deal of I-want stuff out there, or up there, or however you might say it. But give me a magazine, an actual glossy piece of paper, with brilliant photographs that I can rip out and hang in front of my nose for a day, a week. Years.
May is a particularly fine month for ogling magazine spreads devoted to other people’s summer decorating and entertaining schemes and fabulous gardens. Here are all the intentions you could possibly have. With spring so youthful, so promising, surely by July, August, September at the latest, you too—meaning me—will have replicated, more or less . . .
As always, I find myself pondering how to install a swimming pool, even a wallowing trough, in this minute city garden.
A pool is the single element from my long-ago house-hunting checklist that’s missing. We have the garage (aka carriage house), the basement, the attic, the fireplaces and the porches. All essentials for one reason or another—fireplaces and porches for me, and enough space for Princely crap that arrives and never departs.
Now, if I got rid of said Prince I could take the life insurance money and put in the damn pool—I’d hire a truck and a bunch of (sexy) muscle and heave every board and nail out of the garage and turn it into the pool house. Or maybe a guest house. Perhaps a studio for something artistic that I will then do, brilliantly.
I can never decide, which is neither here nor there since he’s not going anywhere—what would I have to complain about?—and the garage remains a garage.
But. On page 113 of this month’s House Beautiful there is a gorgeous pool and pool house, and I want them. Chaise longues with pale pink cushions and white piping surround the turquoise pool. More pink-and-white cushions flop about on the wicker chairs and a sofa and ottomans under the pool-house roof, and it all looks very fresh and clean and COOL and there’s not a buzz saw in sight.
“It’s not a buzz saw,” he says. “It’s a Sawzall.” A reciprocating saw for the pedantic among us.
Oh. This is supposed to be reassuring. He saws all kinds of stuff with it. Yesterday he was standing on a wall, sawing off several sturdy but intrusive limbs from the cherry tree while yakking on his cell phone, an operation I refused to watch.
What was I saying? Oh yes, pools, magazines, fresh clean . . .
More from Charlotte Moss’s “Charlotte Moss Entertains” (Rizzoli, $50), as seen in Veranda magazine.
Then I open Veranda magazine and a feature on designer Charlotte Moss and her new book (Charlotte Moss Entertains, Rizzoli, $50; see opening page) that includes what she calls collages of her favorite things: beside the pool, a shocking pink and yellow fringed patio umbrella from someplace in India; fat burgundy peonies, fuchsia dahlias and French blue hydrangeas; statues and glassware and silver, a wedge of watermelon and a yellow canary. “Pile it on!” she says. It’s joyous and HOT and exotic and I want it.
How does one begin to reconcile such disparate desires?
Collaging is an excellent way of gathering and honing items that attract you into some comprehensible scheme. Designers like Moss have long done it, and I suppose those Pinterest postings are intended as such.
Better, though, to stack a dozen or so magazines and swiftly go through, tearing out every page that catches your eye for any reason. You’re searching for crumbs of inspiration, a personal aesthetic, not a complete picture. Yet.
When you have a nice pile, pick up a sheet and tear off everything that doesn’t appeal; there will probably be a surprising amount of that. From each page you might be left with a single flower, the corner of a cushion, a lipstick color.
Now, take some glue or tape and a poster board, which, if you’re like me, might be found shoved behind a bookcase for a teenager’s project that should have been completed in 2001.
Dump all your tearings onto the poster board and move them this way and that, overlapping, ripping off a smidge of not-quite-right that you overlooked, and when you’re happy, glue them down.
Now hang this collage somewhere in front of you and consider the colors, the patterns, the mood that has emerged. Didn’t know you were that attracted to . . . puce? That glitter really gets you energized? That amethyst and emerald make you happy?
What also materializes is a shopping list for what you love right now. Even if you can afford precisely nothing on the board, quite possibly you already have reasonable alternatives in your closets, your basement, you attic—or your mother’s attic—that can be hauled out, dusted off, maybe repainted, and reimagined into your happy place.
Notice that I said, what you love right now. Moods change, styles go in cycles (that open-plan living room is going to look mighty dated in a decade, mark my words, by cracky). What you love today may make you cringe tomorrow—and vice versa.
Of course this means you must never throw anything away. So much for Marie Kondo and the fad of de-cluttering. If you never dump it, you’ll always have it.
—Stephanie Cavanaugh
LittleBird “Stephanie Gardens” opines on things botanical-ish every Thursday.
THE UNEXAMINED life is not worth living. I believe we learned that from Socrates. Or was it Mr. Rogers? By way of an admittedly tortured analogy, there doesn’t seem to be an unexamined corner of any house in which the English lifestyle entrepreneur India Hicks has lived. In 2015 we had pictures of her plantation-style house in the Bahamas spread over 224 pages of glorious color photos (India Hicks: Island Style), which had followed 192 pages of the 20o4 Island Life: Inspirational Interiors. Now it’s India Hicks: A Slice of England, published last month by Rizzoli: not one, not two, but three family houses where Hicks spent her formative years, plus the one she and her partner of many years, David Flint Wood, have recently constructed.
The piled-on decorating in these digs has the careless, insouciant sense of “Oh, this thing just landed on the table 137 years ago and, look at that!, it’s still there.” That kind of disarray requires a great eye and a lot of editing. Trust me on that.
Hicks comes by it naturally: Her father was the flamboyant (her word, not mine) interior decorator David Hicks, who not incidentally claims to have coined the term “tablescape,” the artful arrangement of objects on, well, a table or other horizontal surface. Her mother’s side of the family—the Mountbattens, don’t you know—seems to have supplied most of the plaster busts, oil portraits and horsefly whisks left over, perhaps, from when Grandpa was Viceroy of India (hence the author’s first name).
The assemblage, and the juxtaposition of ancient manses and David Hicks’s vibrant color schemes, are quite impressive. One could stare at these interiors many times and discover something new each time.
Could I wander around my house and take soulful pictures of corners occupied by the decorative detritus of a life enamored of objets? I have the Regency writing table. The requisite mahogany chest of drawers with Prince of Wales escutcheons. The odd bits of old Chinese crockery. Even a gilt palm-tree lamp. I daresay these decorative exploits could engender great images—but only if the gifted Argentinean photographer Miguel Flores-Vianna, the eye behind the Hicks images, were behind the camera, I’m afraid.
But who would want to look at my things? Sometimes even I don’t. Also, I’m not Prince Charles’s second cousin.
Do I sound bitter, envious? You betcha. India Hicks even had the nerve to be a bridesmaid at the wedding of Prince Charles and Princess Diana. And she was a fashion model (still is, really). There’s quite a bit of humble-bragging about the tedium of being surrounded by such fancy and famous types, but Hicks delights in self-deprecation, which takes the edge off.
I give up.
But Hicks doesn’t. She takes us through the truly stunning interiors of the Broadlands estate, home to her grandparents, then Britwell House (until it had to be sold) and The Grove, both lived in by her parents, David Hicks and Lady Pamela Hicks. The fourth is America Farm, built when Hicks and David Flint Wood feared that their five Bahamian-raised children might be losing their Englishness.
But let me get out of the way (finally, you say?) and share an excerpt from Hicks’s beautiful tome. Here she turns the reins over to David to tell of the “journey of America Farm.”
—Nancy McKeon
‘SO WHAT IS your idea of a house in the country?” Andrew Nichols, our architect, asked. Here we got lucky: India and I both wanted something traditional, probably white stucco, a cross between a Danish farmhouse and a Georgian rectory. As a shorthand description I said, “We’d like to live in a Merchant Ivory film like everybody else, I suppose.”
We are also complete slaves to symmetry in architecture. Aligning doors and windows is important as they create vistas that expand space. And living in the tropics had taught us that the breezes that pass through opposing windows and French doors would come in handy during England’s two weeks of summer.
For the more predictable weather conditions, I was keen to have as many fireplaces as possible through the house. Whilst India loves nothing more than walking in biblical conditions of rain, sleet, and snow, I prefer to gaze upon inclement weather, sitting in the vicinity of crackling logs with a good book and a drink, so we had a Portland stone mantel made for the sitting room and a marble one for the study. I was very keen for another real fire in our bedroom, but India felt that cleaning out an upstairs hearth would be a bore. Gingerly, I pointed out that it would be unusual for her to clean any hearth—we compromised with an artificial fire.
Though India grew up with vibrating palettes in every room, we tended to go with fairly neutral backgrounds and one keynote color, such as the orange Ultrasuede on my Louis VXI–style chairs. One of our sons’ rooms has gunmetal-and-red-striped walls painted on the diagonal; our daughter’s has a lit à la polonaise, covered in David Hicks’s original Tumbling Rose print that was inherited from the Hicks family’s famous Albany set.* Art often supplies the chance to add color, with Gerald Laing’s Baby Baby Wild Things and Alexander Calder lithographs being good cases in point. My antique gouaches of Vesuvius erupting and the eighteenth-century still-lifes, though, tend to find themselves “compromised” and lean against walls.
In the mixing of furniture that either I had collected or that India’s parents had at Albany, we could not have been luckier—it all went together. The first night the seven of us stayed in the house, it felt like home.
*A “set” is an apartment owned by Hicks’s parents at the Albany, London’s oldest private residence, now occupied by India Hicks’s brother.
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Clockwise from top left: Gucci shearling mule, Eloqui Ava satin slide, Kate Spade satin pumps and Prada striped mule.
SHOES THAT are at once flirty and comfortable. Cutting-edge and as soothing as the slippers you wear around the house.
It doesn’t sound possible, but turns out . . . it is. And maybe it will break the cycle of suicide by stiletto we’ve been enduring for the past decade or so.
The first hint I had came from Prada. Not the $690 platform sneakers the fashion house hawks online but a pair of flats that look as if you just wrapped your feet in a length of sweet powder-pink fabric, knotting the material and ending up with a big fat bow across the front. It’s the kind of detail that will make you happy to stare down at your feet (your comfortable, standing-on-firm-ground feet) all day long.
Then there were the kitten heels in a jaunty blue-and-white stripe and a fluffy bow that had . . . nothing whatsoever to do with that color scheme!
And of course, once you’ve seen something for the first time, all of a sudden you see it everywhere, in heels of all heights and at all price points.
Shoe Heaven tied up in a big fat bow. Sometimes the bow is huge, almost surgical looking! Other times it’s quite demure. All in all, these shoes make for happy feet.
—Nancy McKeon
LittleBird Nancy is managing editor of MyLittleBird.
Talk about high-end: Gucci’s Princetown Genuine Shearling Leather Mule has an extravagant crystal-encrusted bow (not to mention the shearling trim tickling your instep). It’s $1,980 at Gucci.com.
Near left: Prada’s Stripe Point Toe Mules, with kitten heel, are like a party for your feet. You can be wait-listed for the version shown, $790 at Saksfifthavenue.com. Or you can opt for the slingback version of the same pattern $890 at Neimanmarcus.com. Above right: Prada’s Ballerina Slingback Flat is pink metallic leather with a big bow and dressmaker pleats (and a touch of black). Perfect with jeans. $940 at ModaOperandi.com.
Florals at your feet. Calista sandal is from Rebecca Minkoff, now $89.96, down from $149.95, at Nordstrom.com.
Near left: From A New Day, blush Knotted Satin Mules, $22.99 at Target.com. Above right: Simply irresistible, the dv Desirae espadrille mules in a light-wash cotton denim uppers. Also available in a muted gold, they’re $24.99 at Target.com.
Bows even go poolside: from Kate Spade New York, the Shellie Glitter Pool Side Sandal, in multi or midnight glitter, were $98, now $58.80 at Bloomingdales.com.
Near left: Ramp up the glamour factor on this shoe trend with SB-Siera mules from Blue by Betsey Johnson, with their oversize crystal bow (also in black satin). Limited sizes available at Nordstromrack.com, $69.97. Above right: Kate Spade New York satin Sala pumps will light up the night in fuchsia, black, ivory and navy; the heel is glittery (the plain satin heel shown seems to be no longer available). $328 at Zappos.com.
The latest news all over your feet, the Ilona high-heeled mules from Charlotte Olympia, very limited availability, $348 at Farfetch.com.
Nic+Zoe’s Poppy Bow Mule comes in black leather, and French Linen leather, but the nude satin version is the one that caught our eye. It’s $150 at Nordstrom.com.
Near left: The Laney Pointy Toe Mule from Sam Edelman offers a lot of look, with its kitten heel and in five rich colors of suede. Now $65.96 at Nordstrom.com. Above right: Also Sam Edelman, the Darian Knotted Silk Slide Sandals, in golden yellow or poppy pink slubbed silk, $110 at Bloomingdales.com
E-Z elegance describes the Ava satin slides, $79.90 from Eloquii.com.
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