Are these gorgeous shoes or what? Christian Louboutin’s mesh-and-rhinestone, festive fishnet flats.
By Janet Kelly
NEVER SAY never, but I can say with a high degree of certainty that I’m never going to wear see-through clothing—the kind half of Hollywood wore on 2024 red carpets.
The same applies to some popular, see-through mesh shoe styles, like this and this.
Maybe they’re okay for warm weather, but too flimsy—I prefer a better barrier between my feet and the street. Besides, feet are not most women’s most attractive body part to be put on full display. So, why am I talking about this at all? Because, as this microtrend has blossomed, choices have happily evolved. On mesh ballet flats, Mary Janes and heels, outsoles are more substantial and many are lined and trimmed with leather.
The newest look is sparkly embellishments, including crystals, glitter, rhinestones and metallic disks. And that twinkly treatment is also happening on all-leather flats, loafers and kitten heels. Think jewelry for the feet.
A sprinkling of shiny studs on shoes is not only a way to put life and light into whatever you’re wearing but also transition to fall with joy in your step. And who couldn’t use a little—or a lot—of that?
Here are the 11 shoes on my radar this week:
Jimmy Choo’s Amel Crystal Mesh Slingback Pumps (2″ inch) is a spiffy-looking shoe. My only hesitation is the heel, which looks like an upside-down golf tee. Would I wobble wearing them? A spendy indulgence, its sells for $1,495 at Bloomingdale’s.
With its dusting of glitter and adjustable buckle, Free People’s Sheer Jules Flat (it comes in pink, too) resembles the Jimmy Choo slingback above, except it sells for $98. Also luxe for less: Sam Edelman’s Bianca Mesh Slingback Heels with rhinestone embellishments for $160.
Before we even blink, the holidays will be here. Eek. I think the large rock crystals on these mesh Balla Flats ($730) say party time. I suggest amortizing the price over a series of occasions, fancy and not.
I’d wear this Ellie Crystal Mesh Flat (a demure Mary Jane) with my velvet pants or for a high-low contrast, with my cropped jeans. They sell for $300 at Veronica Beard.
Remember when SJP in “Sex and the City” looks longingly at a pair of uber-expensive shoes in the window of a NYC designer boutique? Staring at these Christian Louboutin Mamastrapitina flats (also available in black), I empathize.
Brigitte Bardot asked Maison Repetto to make a shoe as flexible as a ballet flat. The result was the Cendrillon (or Cinderella). The original flat comes in 30 colors, but wannabe ball goers –or grownup girls who fancy shine anytime—can set their sights on the new Cendrillon Glitter Ballet Flats . They sell for $405.
I’ve stayed away from heels for what seems like years now but if I were going to, er, dip a toe back in, I’d go for these 3.1 Phillip Lim ID Soft Ballerina Pumps (1 1/4″ block heel) with stripes of sparkly crystals and a lacquered outsole. They sell for $595 from the designer’s website and also at Nordstrom.
Anthropologie’s Studded Mary Jane Flats double down on shine in silvery leather with a peppering of metallic disks that look like raindrops. Also available in black, they sell for $190.
Fashion bible WWD has proclaimed that red remains hot for fall. This Loeffler Randall Wine/Silver Ballet flat (also available in other colors) offers a subtle alternative for $295.
My black flats/ballet slippers are looking awfully dull compared to Le Monde Béryl’s Regency Slipper. Another incentive is its elongating silhouette for anyone (everyone) who wants a foot-slimming shoe. It sells for £445.
From ballet slippers and Mary Janes, teeny-tiny gems have leapt onto loafers, such as this Rhinestone Studded Leather pair ($425) from Sandro Paris.
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Clockwise from top left, The Grande Bateau from Clare V., Cuyana’s customizable tote, a quintessential back-to-work bag from Silver & Riley and DeMellier’s elegant briefcase-like tote.
By Janet Kelly
YOU KNOW those raffia and straw handbags that looked so right at the beginning of summer? Well, they now seem a little sad to me, as do stretchy T-shirt dresses and flimsy flip-flops. Blame it on the end of August and that back-to-school, back-to-work habit but I’m yearning for more substance.
It has been a while since I splurged on a quality tote. I work from home but when I travel I want a bag that can accommodate my laptop, Kindle and associated power plugs, along with a notepad, glasses, my wallet, phone and a small makeup case.
See below the nine candidates that caught my eye:
Anthropologie’s soft-sided Slouchy Bag (14″h, 15″w, 4″d) can fit a laptop, comes in 10 colors and has a small zippered pouch for essentials and extras. It sells for $98.
Also softly structured, Cuyana’s pebbled leather System 16-inch tote (11” h x 19” w x 5.5” d) ups the functional with interior snaps that you can add on or remove, such as a laptop sleeve and pouches to hold makeup or fill in for a clutch. It’s $348.
I love the look of the soft, lived-in leather on this Clare V. Grande Bateau Tote (12” h x 14 3/4” w [at base], 22 1/2” w [at opening] x 7” d), plus it has plenty of room for my laptop. I’d prefer a coated lining because I’m prone to spilling stuff, but the chambray interior is a nice touch.
I wouldn’t be afraid to schlep this Filson Open Tote (14” h x 14” w x 5.5” d) on airplanes or trains for fear I may damage it. (It’s made of industrial-strength twill that’s waxed to be water-repellent.) It’s also relatively lightweight at 1 pound, 9 ounces.
Another versatile option, made of tough, water-resistant neoprene, is this woven St. Barths Tote (12.5” h x 22” w x 8” d) from Naghedi. It wins points for good looks, certainly more than the industrial-looking plain neoprene. The matching zippered pouch inside is a bonus. My only beef with this and the Filson bag above is the open top.
With its coated canvas and geometric print, this Tory Burch Zip Tote (11 1/2″ h x 13″w x 6 1/2” d) looks a lot similar to the very, very spendy Goyard totes (so exclusive you have to shop in-store for them at Bergdorf Goodman). For $298 at Nordstrom, it’s a lot more accessible to mere mortals, which is why I guess my colleague Nancy McKeon sees “at least six a day on the streets of [her NYC] neighborhood—usually over the shoulders of health care folks.”
Fréja New York’s structured Lafayette Tote (11” h x 5.5” w x 19” [top] and 13” [base] l)—made of vegan leather with a vegan microsuede lining—has enough room for a 16-inch laptop and four big pockets for the rest of your stuff.
Thanks to its long top handles and gold-plated hardware, a traditional briefcase with multiple compartments gets an update with a feminine vibe. The DeMellier London Maxi Montreal (10.6” h x10.4” [top width], 15.5” [base width] x 5.9” d) is a pricey $795 and a heavyweight at 3.5 pounds.
This Silver & Riley Convertible Executive bag (10”h x 15.5″w x 5.5″d) looks sleek and compact but packs a lot— an inner pocket that snaps in a 15-inch laptop, another one for folders, and still another for a phone and wallet. I’d carry it by its top handle, but with a detachable strap it also can be worn as a crossbody and a backpack. What I like most: its metal feet for protecting the calfskin leather.
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Dresses in red, white and blue, respectively, from designer Sandy Liang, Zara/ Massimo Dutti and Tuckernuck.
By Janet Kelly
FOR SOMEONE who writes about fashion, it’s kind of sad that my summer dresses spark little joy. Oh, wait, I do own a jersey shift with an abstract print on the front (from Agnes b.) that I like, although it’s getting a little long of tooth. As for the season itself, it’s more wane than wax at this point, but there’s still warm weather to come, which means barbecues, weddings; birthday parties, et cetera, to attend.
Lately I’ve been thinking about what I wish for in a summer dress. Comfort and easy maintenance top the list as does fit; a breathable fabric is key in hot weather, and a midi or a tea is my preferred length. Pockets are most appreciated.
Below I’ve found eight I’d be happy to wear these last few weeks of summer and some right into fall.
I’d like the length just a tad longer, but it’s the Tiffany blue color of this Aurora button-up shirt dress that won me over. Pockets, yes When it gets cooler, I might pop it over a pair of slim pants. It sells for $395 at Caron Callahan.
A waist-cinching belt, full-ish skirt and three-quarter sleeves add up to a winning silhouette, and the heavier linen fabric extends its wearability into fall. The Vittoria Dress from Rails sells for $268.
I wrote about this Frank & Eileen lean and long shirt dress ($328) in blue back in May. I like it even a little better, for late summer, in pale peach.
You don’t have to love linen to like this boho dress ($550, Shopbop). You could wear it over a bathing suit, but why not show it off at a fall cocktail party?
Even though it’s a tad longer than my preferred length, the fluttery sleeves, flowy skirt and ikat pattern make it the dress I’d want to wear on my end-of-summer vacation (if I were going on one). It sells for $315 at Tuckernuck.
I debated whether to include this Sandy Liang “sailor” dress ($495, Nordstrom) with it oversized, lace-trimmed collar. Too gamine, too sweet, you say? Counter that vibe with a leather moto jacket in the fall.
A cover-up dress in breezy gauze that can go from the beach/lake/pool to lunch beyond the water is one I can get behind. Because of the color, I’m thinking it’s less see-through than, say, one in white. No pockets, but it’s a wallet-friendly $79 at L.L. Bean.
This long linen dress exemplifies the beauty of simple lines. It’s pricey—$199—for Massimo Dutti, that is, but worth the statement it makes.
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From left to right, leg-lengthening flip-flops, an elegant Georg Jensen bangle and a shimmery skirt.
By Janet Kelly
MANY WANTS, not many needs. Be that as it may, here’s what’s on my current wanna-have list:
It’s All About the Wrist
For quintessential summer style, I’d pile on the pink with this wrist stackfrom Frances Valentine or choose a statement setof technicolor striped beads from Roxanne Assoulin. Georg Jensen’s Torun bangletempts me with its simplicity while the evil eyes on the Kaya braceletappeal for warding off bad juju. Pairing the former with Hermès’s Clic H braceletmakes a stunning stack.
I’m enchanted with the airy, almost diaphanous, crinkly fabric on Ayr’s Ever After black linen skirt (FYI, it’s not see-through, thanks to a cotton voile lining). Pockets and a forgiving elastic waist seal the deal for me.
Come on, admit it—we all have an inner ballerina hiding inside us. I’d give into mine with this sequined organdy skirt or this shimmery puff confection if I had an invite to a fancy summer soirée.
Did someone say nude-colored shoes lengthen the leg? Count me in for these Lily flip-flops that come in 15 shades—from a pinky beige to a mahogany. I was a little on the fence about jelly sandals until I asked my water aerobics instructor, ”Aren’t they hot?” Nope, she said. As for these pink suede sneakers, irresistible. Finally, I love that these barely there sandals caress the vamp of the foot with one elegant cord.
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Oldies but goodies. From left to right, my late 1970s Christian Dior wool jacket, Nancy’s cool-weather jacket from Chanel and my Pierre Cardin tweed coat.
By Janet Kelly
YOU KNOW how it is; you start talking about one thing and then somehow you’re off on a tangent to a totally different subject. So it went with a recent conversation with my colleague Nancy McKeon. Just like that, the discussion turned from . . . neither of us remembers . . . to what were the oldest items in our closet we own and even wear.
I tend to keep my clothes a long time, sometimes past their overdue date. It’s better for the environment, true, but maybe you’ve noticed that your older dresses, skirts, sweaters, etc., are made of higher quality fabrics and their overall construction is better. So, why ditch them for more expensive, not as well-made clothing. Of course, if they’re hopelessly out of fashion. Even then, if you hold onto them long enough, just wait—that style will return in some way or another.
I bought this Christian Dior Sportswear jacket in 1979. I remember wearing it with a sleeveless, high-neck, polka dot chiffon blouse and a pleated black midi skirt to a party to impress an ex-boyfriend. The chiffon blouse didn’t last but I kept the skirt until just a few years ago—the wool started to shine—and the waistline seemed to have gotten, er, tighter.
Remember back to when Bloomingdale’s had these shopping extravaganzas focusing on a particular country, including Italy, France, India and China. In 1978, when the store was featuring India, my mother and I went browsing and found this charming gewgaw. Coffee table ornament? “No,” said my mom. “Use it as a little evening clutch.” (It opens up and you can stash a credit card and a lipstick in it.)
This Pierre Cardin coat (the label reads Boutique Pierre Cardin Paris) I bought in D.C. at a Weschler’s auction. I’m not sure when it was made, although Cardin designed coats with pleats early on in his career and then in 1980 with his “computer coat.” It’s not the kind of classic coat I’d wear every day, even though it’s wool and lined. Instead of buttons it has snaps and collar that wraps around your neck. When I wear it I almost always get a compliment or two and a “where did you get that?” question.
I bought this Chanel jacket in 1988 or possibly ‘89. It’s heavy enough that it can be a cool-weather outer jacket. But it worked indoors too over a dress or with black pants. I used to wear it to work and to luncheons. Today I wear it over a plain white T-shirt and jeans. The jacket is well made, wears like iron.
I bought this dress at Chanel in London in 1986 or maybe ‘87. I don’t fit in it anymore, which is just as well: it’s completely unlined, and the buttonholes for the buttons that run all the way down the back were too large and therefore kept slipping open (but of course I had to rely on others to tell me that!). Unlike the red jacket, this dress does not speak well for Chanel’s ready-to-wear. Adding insult to embarrassment, the shanks on the metal buttons on a black Chanel cardigan that I bought in New York in ‘84 or ‘85 were so badly finished (and jagged) that they kept cutting through the thread, making the buttons fall off. The wool itself was quite undistinguished, and I dumped the sweater ages ago.
Dear Readers: Have you saved any items of clothing or accessories from years ago? Do you still wear any of them? Why have you kept them? Please share your stories for an upcoming post.
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Keep your cool in, from left to right, a cropped, wide-sleeve shirt from Italian fashion brand Baci, Cos’s white-is-right-for-summer matched linen set and a loose-fitting shirt from Lintico.
By Janet Kelly
“WHAT DO you wear when it’s 95 degrees outside?” Good question, glad you asked.
If you haven’t heard the conventional wisdom for coping with super-hot days, the advice is to wear natural fabrics, such as cotton and linen; cover up likely-to-get-sun-scorched body parts and stick to loose-fitting rather than tight and clingy clothing.
Jessica Glasscock, a fashion historian at Parsons School of Design, had this to say:
“All the perennial advice on dressing for the heat is accurate. Wear natural and breathable fabrics like linen and cotton. Wear light colors. But I might also add that you should never underestimate the power of aeration. Wear long, light skirts that will shield your body from the sun and promote airflow. Wear clothes with lace and mesh elements to give your skin even more ways to breathe. Consider dresses that plunge at the front or back to keep cool. Let your clothes and your body have space to let your natural cooling systems work.”
We’d love to hear your strategy for keeping cool (tell us in the comments!) In the meantime, here are my choices:
I’ll be thinking cool thoughts in this cotton voile pale blueblouse—with a boho chic vibe. It sells for $265 at Ba&Sh.
Steamy summer days make me want to wear loose-fitting clothing, like Banana Republic’s cotton poplin maxi dress with its roomy, caftan silhouette. Be mindful of too loose—caftans can overwhelm a small frame and bulk up a larger one. Too oversize? Size down. It sells for $160.
Ever since the Wall Street Journal ran a story on Aritizia’s Effortless Pant, pointing out how they look good on all body types, I’ve been tempted to try a pair. (The wide-leg trousers come in more than a dozen colors, six types of fabric and four different lengths.) The cropped, high-rise version of the pant in linen with Lyocell (wrinkle-resistant) checks my boxes for a summer trouser, and it’s reduced from $148 to $103.60 in this lilac hue.
Yup, boho’s back. This billowy, tunic-length top might swallow me up, but it looks so darn comfortable for swanning around in.
A more tailored caftan, this midi dress is a linen blend, which is less likely to wrinkle but still feels light and airy. It’s a wallet-friendly $72 at Banana Republic Factory.
I had never heard of Lintico before I stumbled across this loose-fit shirt in a linen-cotton blend. The refreshing plaid pattern adds to its appeal. It sells for $64.90.
Just looking at this pleated midi dress makes my temperature go down. Wear for a pool party or a barbecue. Note that you might need assistance because it ties in the back. It sells for $139 at & Other Stories.
An alternative to linen, this Suzie gauze pant and matching Leo gauze shirt from Michael Stars looks polished and cool, too, in this lettuce-green hue.
If I had a swanky lunch date, I’d want to wear this swingy, yummy-colored textured skirt with just a smidgen of fringe at the hem. If you need incentive, the price has gone from $425 to $212.50.
I’ve shown this embroidered short-sleeve dress before, but I couldn’t resist a repeat look because of its breeze-friendly features—silky cotton fabric, dolman sleeves and flowy skirt with side slits. It sells for $395 at Ayr.
I have a version of this cotton cropped shirt (mine’s in white), and I have worn it so many times I’ve lost count. Unbuttoned over a tank top or by itself, its wide sleeves and hem are airflow-friendly. It sells (final sale) for $40 at Baci Fashion.
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Clockwise, from left to right: All Saints’ moto jacket in indigo, Dior makeup set, a versatile Vince short-sleeve sweater, cushy Mephisto sandals and Lizzie Fortunato baroque pearl earrings.
By Janet Kelly
NORDSTROM’S annual blowout summer sale kicks off for the general public Monday, July 15, and lasts through Sunday, August 4. If you’re a Nordstrom cardholder, depending on your status (how much dough you spend yearly), you can start shopping a few days earlier. Don’t have a card? That means the stuff you have set your heart on may get sold out before you get your hands on it.
But cardholder or not, make your wish list. Think wardrobe staples. Even though it’s not quite mid-July, think fall, not summer. This is the only sale I know of that marks down new-season clothing.
Here’s my list—a mix of outerwear, shoes, sweaters, jewelry and makeup.
I own an ancient leather jacket in brown from Michael Kors and a 10-year-old cream-colored one from Dennis Basso, both of which I still wear. This midnight-blue leather biker jacket would be a refreshing addition. The sale price of $349.99 goes up almost $200 post sale.
It helps to do the math. Dior’s Natural Glow Makeup Set (a $94 value selling for $73) includes the label’s much-celebrated DiorShow mascara (full size), a mini lash-boosting serum and my all-time favorite lip glow balm in a brand-embossed cosmetics bag. The regular price of the mascara and lip balm adds up to $73, and I don’t need (or want) a tiny tube of lash serum or another makeup bag.
The MACStack Mascara Set is a better deal, a $56 value that’s $36 during the sale. The regular price of the full-size Mega Mascara and the Stack Lash Primer comes to $56, so if you want both, you net $20 bucks on the offer.
Jeans are a fall necessity. When cooler weather arrives, I’ll regret not buying AG’s high-waist boot-cut jeans (my favorite silhouette). They’re $156 during the sale, $235 after.
This Avec Les Files faux fur jacket ($189.99, $300, post sale) is more trend than staple but it’s a winner for a wardrobe zhuzh-up. Along with this fab cherry hue, it comes in a luscious pale blue-green color and an unexciting brown.
Pearl earrings can be a bore. But a drop earring with a big, shiny baroque pearl inlaid with a green amethyst is a looker. These earringsare $193.99 during the sale, $290 afterwards.
I’d wear these feet-coddling Mephisto Toe Loop Sandals ($109.99 and $156, after sale) all year ’round. They’re that comfortable.
New Balance shows off its fashion chops in unisex sneakers with a textural suede topping. Score them for $69.99 during the sale, for $20 more after it’s over.
I love down for cold days, but this camel wool peacoatis a classic alternative. If you’re in the market, snag it for $739.99—before it goes up to $1,098.
Another wool coat, this one in herringbone, that won’t go out of style. During the sale, it’s $539.99, going up to $895 after.
Over a button-down, under a blazer, I can think of lots of ways to wear this elbow-length sleeve wool and cashmere sweater. I’m particularly partial to the charcoal and navy choices. It’s $159.99 during the sale, $245 after.
Veronica Beard tweaks the traditional penny loafer—in woven suede —for the $244.99 sale price and then the full price of $375.
Red patent leather may not be your thing, but the Zooey Ballet Flat (sale price $84.99, post sale, $130) also comes in metallic, tweed and just plain black leather.
Editor’s Note: If you want earlier access to the sale than July 15, you can sign up for a Nordstrom credit card and spend at least $500 to shop four days before the general public.
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From left to right, cute cropped pants, a tasseled tote, a spiffy sweatshirt and cool crochet top.
By Janet Kelly
NEED inspiration for what to wear on the Fourth? This summer show your stripes in colors—on a lilac smocked skirt, a black-and-white airy crochet top or on an emerald-green tote.
No predictable nautical navy-and-white stripes for Clare V. Her linen Zoe skirt comes in purple and white and green and white. Make it a matched set with the Célia blouse. The skirt sells for $245.
A striped T-shirt is practically a rite of summer. Tees from Uniqlo have not disappointed so far, so I’m game to click the buy button on this ribbed crewneck. The $9.90 price doesn’t hurt either.
These linen wide-leg pants have pretty much the perfect silhouette—not too high-rise and not too flared. They’re available with an embroidered bottom in tall and petite sizes for $168.
This very cute scallop stripe sweater vest went out of stock before I could even mention it to you. Alternatively, this crochet stripe paneled midi dress ($385) is a good pick for steamy summer days.
I’m not, er, hooked on crochet, but FYI, Zara is having a site-wide sale, and this striped shirt is a wallet-friendly $39.99.
Here’s a perfectly slouchy oversize crewneck sweatshirt in brown and black that will transition well to late summer and fall. It’s $98 from Free People.
What’s summer without a straw bag? This emerald-stripe tote caught my fancy with its big tassel accent. It sells for $165 at Shopbop.
This is one of the best styled—and spendiest—sweatshirts (that’s what Proenza Schouler calls this tie-dye top) I’ve seen in a while. It’s reduced from $350 to $245 at Bloomingdale’s.
A classic striped shirt tweaked with dolman sleeves makes a pretty pair with white pants or a skirt. It sells for $194 at Garmentory.
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Stress-less dressing, from left to right, a tangerine gauze combo from Michael Stars, a Zara cropped top and skirt and Toteme’s chic silk set.
By Janet Kelly
IF I HAD searched for “matching sets” 10 years ago, chances are good I wouldn’t have come up with any. But in the past couple of years, retailers from Bloomingdale’s to Zara have devoted entire categories on their sites to these coordinated combos. Unlike the fussy ’50s, today’s crop of monochromatic tops and bottoms can make the morning ritual of deciding what to wear less stressful. Moreover, if you’re planning to travel this summer, a couple of matched sets—I’d stick to neutral colors—will expand your options while cutting down on clothing you need to pack.
Below, my picks for the best of these sets. Not convinced the look is for you? Remember, you can always wear each piece separately.
Who says matched sets are boring? Not Gucci. This sporty, pastel-pink jacket and cargo skirtfrom the label’s Resort Collection makes everyday look elegant, particularly when accessorized with a double strand of pearls, big sunnies and the brand’s signature black loafers.
I’ve talked about the flattering proportions of cropped tops coupled with wider bottoms, and here’s a great example for a good price. The handkerchief hem midi skirt sells for $79.95; the top for $49.95. (For peace of mind, ensure the shirt length covers your midriff.)
My NYC friends tell me Reformation is for younger women. But I think this Blair two-piece looks very much like grown-up girl Chanel. It’s only still available in a couple of sizes, but there is a waiting list.
It isn’t inexpensive, but Frank & Eileen’s triple-fleece London Travel Set will keep you warm and is so spiffy you’ll probably get upgraded.
What to wear when you want to look cool in steamy weather? My radar is landing on Cos’s linen shirt and matching shorts (I’d call them bermudas because of the longer length).
Speaking about cool, eyelet fabric is made for hot times and temps. This Lilla P. eyelet V-neck top—with a detachable camisole—and coordinating maxi skirt is lined to a slit slightly above the knee, encouraging any available air to flow in.
Despite its popularity this summer, I don’t think of red as a summery color. I do like the coupling of the puff-sleeve cropped shirt and full midi skirt (note the pockets!), which is also available in black and in white. For more matched sets, check out the category on Zara.
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Get in the swim of it. From left to right, a M.M. LaFleur-Andie Swim collaboration, a stunning hibiscus print from Loro Piana and a stretchy suit for every body from YouSwim.
ME, GO SWIMMING? Wear a bathing suit? I’d almost rather set my hair on fire. Nonetheless, a few months ago, I signed up for a water aerobics class—across the street from my house. (I’d wear my suit under a long kaftan, which I’d swiftly take off and slip into the water.) Still I canceled a couple of times before I decided to take the plunge last week.
Well, dear readers, I had such a ball playing with weights and noodles in the pool, I felt like a kid again at summer camp. My advice is, Don’t deny yourself the pleasure of swimming because you don’t like how you look in a bathing suit. My wise colleague, Valerie Monroe, would undoubtedly counsel you to accept your body.
And, oh, should you need a new bathing suit, I’ve got a bunch of suggestions that are comfortable, functional and flattering.
Note: I have mostly stuck to one-pieces because it’s my preference but all the brands mentioned below offer two-pieces.
When I asked my kitchen cabinet where they buy bathing suits, my pal who swims a few times a week, gave the nod to Lands’ End for the “tugless” sporty one-piece. A UPF 50 sun-protected blend of 88% nylon and 12% chlorine-resistant Spandex (for longer wear), its jacquard texture camouflages tummies. It’s available in black, white, turquoise, pink and blackberry in regular sizes 2 to 18 and in plus sizes 16 to 26 in blackberry, pink, and turquoise. Use code LOVE to halve the regular $72.95 price tag.
I told my savvy daughter-in-law I needed a bathing suit, and she immediately said, “You have to try one from Andie,” so I investigated. Among the brand’s four “icons” (most popular), I liked the look and details of the Tulum One Piece (above), which comes in a classic or long torso, in a smooth, compressive fabric (80% recycled nylon and 20% Spandex) as shown, or in a ribbed or satin finish. The site describes its seat coverage and compression as medium and bust support as maximum, which you can change with removable cups. I like its cross-strap back for making sure everything stays in place. Available in extra small to XXXL, it comes in basic colors (black, red, navy, and white), as well as this fun papaya shade. I’m also attracted to Andie’s Malibu style, which offers full rear coverage and snap-front buttons for more cover up top.
This sculpting suit, also from Lands’ End, uses the company’s patent-pending WaveShaper™ technology—built into the UPF 50 fabric—that targets the mid-section. Draping detail along the chest accentuates the bust, while a sewn-in soft-cup bra lifts it up. It’s available in regular, petite, and long. On my ad hoc advisory board, a friend who spends most of her time in a museum with a summer break on the Cape, gives a thumbs-up to Lands’ End for its slew of tankini tops in regular and plus sizes that you can mix and match with swimsuit bottoms (bikini bottoms, swim shorts, and skirts).
My Paula Beachwear suit in the swordfish pattern (black body with a square white neckline) has seen better days, unfortunately. It was exceptionally comfortable—in a textured lycra, which was compressive but not overly so—and had a generously cut bottom. Now I’m eyeing the Sorrento in the same fabric but with a high neck, which ties in the back. Besides this black, it comes in seven other colors. Bonus points: It can also do double-duty as a top.
I’ve never worn a tankini because I thought they might rise up to reveal a stomach I’d rather not show. This cute Santorini Tankini Top with contrasting halter-neck stripes from Boden looks like a flattering shape, but I think the matching bottom looks too skimpy. There is a high-waisted bikini bottom in navy that might work; alternatively, there’s the Santorini Halterneck Swimsuit with boning at the side seams for good support, and it’s available in regular and long.
You have to hand it to Lands’ End for the sheer abundance of its styles. This slender suit, available in regular and plus sizes, is made from Slendertex® fabric with UPF 50 sun protection and flatters with a V-neck and criss-cross pleats for tummy control.
Those who want to show more skin may prefer Andie’s Mana One Piece with its V-neck and feminine bows. A nylon-satin fabric with a light sheen offers the same compression as its Tulum and Malibu cousins.
Up for a splurge? The hibiscus leaves look as if they’ve been painted on this Loro Piana one-piece suit. In a lightweight jersey fabric that hugs and smoothes the body, it’s also practical for plunging in without fear of a wardrobe malfunction.
YouSwim wants to fit Everywoman with its soft, flexible tops, bottoms and one-piece suits that come in two sizes — Stretch I (size 2-14) and II (size 14-24). Made in England, the fabric acts like a second skin. This ribbedAplomb One Piece ($139) will stretch in all directions to accommodate big busts, no butts and the in-betweens. It’s also available in two pieces with either a standard high waist or a cheeky (thong-like) bottom.
I don’t believe in spending a lot of money on coverups, especially when you can pop a big T-shirt or an oversize button-up that you already own over your swimsuit. But this Garnet Hill linen midi coverup with a high-low hem, fluttery sleeves, and pockets is on sale for a third of its original price.
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Actor Hunter Schafer wore a refreshingly practical gown by Armani Privé to the premiere of Kinds of Kindness at the 77th Cannes Film Festival, France, May 17, 2024. / Photo by Anthony Harvey/Shutterstock.
By Janet Kelly
WHAT DO women want? Pockets! Here’s actor Hunter Schafer at this year’s Cannes Film Festival nonchalantly putting her hands into the deep pockets of an Armani Privé gown. She looks gorgeous, but even more than that, confident.
In the main, when we talk about pockets we’re talking about how convenient they are. However, as my colleague Nancy McKeon points out, “a lot of it is really about looking cool. I can’t think of a better way to look laidback than to have your hand (or even hands) in your pocket(s). Our mothers would be horrified, but pockets give us something to do with our hands.”
And that certainly applies to all the easygoing summer dresses below—from Banana Republic’s utility dress to Ulla Johnson’s checked cover-up.
Banana Republic’s Utility Dress (also in black and clay brown) checks my boxes for the shift I’d buy to wear all summer long. With fabric that’s an 80%/20% linen-and-cotton blend, a loose fit and a full lining (so it won’t stick to you), it’s made for feeling cool and crisp in wilting weather. It sells for $150.
A 2012 Parsons School of Design graduate, Nikki Chasin combines the feminine with the unfussy for her namesake label. A playful zig-zag appliqué frames the gathered yoke and puff sleeves on this ivory, mid-length henley dress ($388).
Summer like a French girl in a sunny cotton poplin dress from Paris-based Soeur. Named after the Greek goddess of wisdom, Athena, it’s a smart option for steamy days thanks to its material, relaxed silhouette and breezy sleeves. Too much volume, no waist? No worries. A fabric belt at the back will cinch you in to flatter that part. The dress sells for $395.
When you feel like wearing a skirt instead of your jeans, this field skirt is one I much prefer over the endless long and draggy denim maxis. Fitted at the waist, it eases into a gentle full skirt that hits at the lower calf. Feed your inner cowgirl with its yoke details, waistband and a button fly. It also comes in a navy or light-blue cotton stripe and sells for $350.
A shout-out to Ulla Johnson for designing this flow window-pane check dress with practical pockets. So, pull it over your swimsuit, yes, but I’d also team it with a T-shirt and wear it beyond the beach and pool.
The Françoise skirt kind of reminds me of an awning but in a good, beachy vibes way. It has an elastic waistband but also comes with loops to accommodate a coordinating belt. Plus, the skirt has the right amount of swoosh. It sells for $188 from Mille.
For grown-up girls, asailor midi dress ($398) in nautical navy with shell buttons down the front and tabs at waist. Take a tip from designer Nikki Chasin who believes clothes should not be too serious and slip a yellow linen three-quarter sleeve blouse under it.
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INCYMI, in my Substack last weekend, I put together a list of must-have gear for heading to the beach.
Here are both my essentials and nice-to-haves:
Anthropologie’s Out to Sea Beach Towel in cotton velour is a generous 68 inches long and 35 inches wide, but it’s on back order and won’t be available until June 20 (that’s an estimate); however, the equally fetching tiger beach towel with a coral, sky or green background is still waiting to be snapped up. Both sell for $54.
If you want extra coverage from the sun, this raglan-sleeve rash guard with a handy zipper, removable padded cups and long sleeves has your name on it. It’s available in a pink-and-navy color block, along with three other patterns. Are there matching swim shorts? Yes, there are.
Lola Hats’ Rise ‘N Shine Straw Hat ($220, Moda Operandi) in tobacco with a regatta stripe ribbon and a 4.75-inch-wide brim will turn heads from Jones Beach to Saint Jean Cap Ferrat. Another version (Transat) is named after a 1950s French Riviera beach lounge chair. In this style ($312, Lola Hats) the grosgrain ribbon slips through eyelets and becomes a pair of chin ties.
I’m always asking my dermatologist about various products I hear about, but so far the only one she has recommended is ISDIN’s ultralight tinted mineral sunscreen SPF 50. Cheap, it’s not, but it goes on smoothly, practically melting into skin, and this tinted version evens out your skin tone. And a little goes a long way.
Hauling around your beach gear—towels, snacks, sunscreen, etc.—takes strength, which is something L.L. Bean’s Boat and Tote, Zip-Top specializes in. Constructed of heavyweight (24-ounce) canvas with a reinforced bottom and double-stitched seams, it comes in small, medium, large and extra large in a dozen colors. Handles come in 8- and 14-inch lengths and are tested to hold up to—ready for this?— 500 pounds. If you don’t pack lightly, your best bet is the longer handle—for better leverage.
My daughter-in-law who lives near the water in Connecticut has rekindled my love of the beach. But there are other reasons I could use a portable chair—to watch kids’ soccer games in relative comfort and to attend my neighbor’s summer concert series. Sunflow’s Original Chair got a lotta press when it was seen on “Shark Tank” a couple of years ago. Now there’s a new version that’s lighter (8 pounds) and sits 12 inches above the sand/ground instead of 9. It comes in a slew of summery colors.
Recently, on a complete whim, I tried on a pair of Chanel butterfly-shaped sunnies. They were gorgeous but sold for a spendy $550. The practical side of me knows that the most important things about sunglasses is their UV protection (which most have)—and that they’re large enough to protect your eyes and some of your face. I could easily find something similar, like these for $117.60 or this Jackie Ohh II for $195, both from Ray-Ban. Or maybe this very cool-looking octagon shape($255) from Krewe Eyewear.
I was taking a walk along the beach when I noticed about half the beachgoers had set up their chairs/lounges under thistent-like structure. The people I asked gave these CoolCabanas rave reviews, mentioning how much easier it was to assemble and how much sturdier it was than a beach umbrella. The top on the large version, which provides 64 square feet of shade with UPF 50+ protection, sells for $229. The medium size is $199. They’re both available in a dozen colors.
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Keep your hat on. From left to right, a slouchy wide-brim hat from Free People, Eugenia Kim’s showstopper and a fringed visor from Lola Hats.
By Janet Kelly
LAST WEEK Sarah Jessica Parker posted a photo of herself on the set of “And Just Like That” in an enormous, puffy gingham hat. Soooo SJP to embrace such over-the-top choice. But she wasn’t alone. At the Cannes film festival, Anya Taylor-Joy wore a straw hat that looked like a flying saucer.
Head-turning hats are fashion statements on the French Riviera. But wearing oversize hats with generous, wide brims are also practical for keeping the sun off your face, neck and shoulders and keeping you cool. They can be stylish as well.
Something else to keep in mind: May is melanoma and skin cancer awareness month. (Some of the hats below are made with sun-protective fabric. Whatever you choose, though, remember to wear sunscreen.)
Here, our picks for the season’s best looks in hats.
Terrain has a terrific selection of garden gear and apparel. I hesitate to call myself a real gardener, but I would be delighted to don this wide-brimmed Kiara raffia hat to protect (along with sunscreen) my eyes and face while doing my necessary watering and weeding. The lush green color weaved in makes it special; an adjustable ribbon secures the fit. It sells for $98.
A wide brim (3.25 inches) at the front protects your eyes and the tender tips of the ears from the sun’s rays but the beauty of Solibar’s Wanderlust Visor UPF50+ ($49) is it can also be worn as a cap—a zip-off top section shields the top of your head from the heat of the sun. A strap ensures it stays on your head on a windy day. Want another color? It’s available in navy, beige, white, silver, coral, pink and black, too.
Cowboy looks never go out of style. Think Hollywood, Ralph Lauren, Miley Cyrus, Beyoncé. Our own Mary Carpenter started wearing her sons’ cowboy hats a few years ago and recently bought one for herself in Kansas City. I think she might like this cute textured one —in crocheted raffia— for summer. Trimmed in faux leather with an adjustable sweatband, it sells for $172 at Hat Attack.
The loose look of crochet is going strong for summer. Ganni’s cotton bucket hat in racing red offers a little coverage with its brim but in the main it’s just a darn cute choice. It sells for $145 at Shopbop.
What sun? Lululemon’s wide-brimmed hat ($58) in a lightweight, sweat-wicking UPF 40+ fabric keeps the rays off your face, while extra length at the back means additional protection for your neck. You can cinch the toggle on the back to adjust the fit. When it gets scruffy, handwash in cold water.
A big, wide brim and slouchy silhouette with dangling removable ties makes this shoreline bucket hat a great choice for staying shaded from the sun. Easily packable for traveling and/or taking to the beach, it comes in this espresso (above), plus it’s available in black, sand, tomato and light blue for $38 from Free People.
Frida Kahlo fans, take note. This reversible sun hat, digitally printed with floral patterns inspired by Kahlo, pays tribute to the artist’s legacy and influence. Not a sunny day? You’ll look fetching with the striped brim turned up. It sells for $55 at Wolf & Badger.
Look impossibly chic while also shielding your face from the sun with the extra-wide brim on this hand-crafted, fringed raffia visor from Lola Hats. It sells for $245 at Moda Operandi.
Outdoor Research is serious about sun protection. The brand’s Oasis Sun Hat (SolarShield™ UPF 50 sun protection) keeps you on the shady side with a 3.25-inch brim in the front and 4.5 inches protecting your neck at the back. A drawcord makes it easy to adjust the fit and a headband helps wick away sweat. It even floats should you drop it in the pool. It sells for $42 at Zappos.
No matter where you actually are, imagine strolling along a beach path overlooking the sea as you watch heads turn to admire you in Eugenia Kim’s Giselle floral-print satin oversize sunhat—with a 9-inch brim and UPF 50+ protection. The stunner of a hat is also packable, so you can take it anywhere you travel. It sells for $375.
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From left to right, Frank & Eileen’s linen maxi, Johnny Was’s flouncy boho and Caron Callahan’s polo dress.
By Janet Kelly
Ed Note: A BIG apology to those of you who received an earlier, unedited version of this post.
SOMETIMES I feel like a dress—wearing it, that is—even though I’ve always leaned more toward separates. Then last June on vacation with my friend M., I noticed she was wearing the cutest dresses—they were a bit boho, mostly midi-length, in sunny colors and with 3/4-length sleeves. I asked M. where she bought them, but, alas, it turned out they were from small boutiques that only carry one or two pieces of any particular item.
So I set out to find my own favorites. I looked for dresses that would satisfy my below-the-knee requirement, have sleeves (only one is sleeveless; the other can be worn with a T-shirt), not require much maintenance (six of the 8 below are washable), and importantly, ones I’d feel happy to wear all summer long.
Here are my picks:
Printfresh must have gotten the message about the billowy sleeve trend because they’re here in full on this Flower Charmer Midi. Made of cotton poplin, this beachy caftan with colors that bring to mind the sun and the ocean, is a comfy choice whether you’re on vacation or a staycation. It sells for $288. It’s also pretty in a rose petal and denim combination. Sizes on most apparel go up to 4X.
Should you be so lucky to sit in the stands at the French Open, Wimbledon or the US Open this summer, go with the tenniscore flow and look cool and crisp court side in this drop-waist midi shirt dress. The navy blue placket and trim on the sleeves, the A-line silhouette and the mid-thigh slit give it oomph. If you like, belt it with a sweater. It sells for $158 at Anthropologie.
Here’s a rib knit midi that will solve several problems. I know—it’s sleeveless. Still, how easy will this body-skimming knit be to pack, hang up when you arrive and head right to dinner. Wrinkles banished! Knitted in lightweight viscose stretch yarn with metallic fibers, the dress has a pale gold finish that gives a sense of occasion to an otherwise simple style. Add your own jewelry. It sells for $465 at ME+EM.
As I know I’ve mentioned before, maxis are not my favorite, but I’ll make an exception for this all-linen Rory shirt dress, To minimize the long, straight look, roll up the sleeves, leave a few buttons on top unbuttoned and do the same on the lower half of the dress. Let some leg show. The Rory sells for $308 at Frank & Eileen.
I’ve been disappointed in the quality of Everlane for the past couple of years. But I’m willing to give this relaxed, linen V-neck midi (which also comes in white) a go. I’d layer a white T-shirt under it for daytime and if you’re feeling bold, wear a linen pant under it. Another possibility is wearing a cardigan draped over the shoulders or cinching the waist with a colorful belt. For footwear, I’d opt for fisherman sandals or sneakers. The shift sells for $148.
This Johnny Was floral-embroidered poplin dress with a tiered, full-ish skirt, fluttery sleeves and embroidery comes close to the vacation-ready dresses M. wore. Alhough the photo shows a dress that hits at the shin, the details describe its as being designed to hit at the ankle. Maybe it depends on your height? Anyway, it sells for $540 at Bloomingdale’s.
Love this linen, oversize, tomato-colored, striped polo shirt dress. An elastic at the center of the back gives it a flattering fit, while the side seam pockets give me another reason to smile. It sells for $395 from Caron Callahan.
A caftan-like breezy dress with feminine details—a deep, deep V, dolman sleeves and a curved waist for flowy volume and high- side slits. Made from a silk-cotton fabric with a separate light-as-air cotton voile slip, it’s $395 from Ayr.
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From left to right, a traditional polo in nontraditional fern green, a shirt dress for watching tournaments courtside (both from Clare V.) and a cropped sweater vest from Aritzia.
By Janet Kelly
JUST a few months ago, the buzz was ballet core, and we were jonesing for ballet slippers, Mary Janes and tulle skirts. Now, tennis is having its fashion moment, thanks in part to the summer blockbuster, Challengers. Zendaya, who played the tennis-wonder-turned-coach promoted the film in red carpet-clothing, such as tennis ball heels and a party dress with a tennis racket pattern.
But the connection between fashion and tennis goes back to the 1920s, when French player Suzanne Lenglen wore Jean Patou designs on court and René Lacoste won seven grand-slam titles and created the Lacoste tennis shirt. The pavé bracelet Chris Evert wore when she played tournaments became known as a “tennis bracelet.”
Today, Emma Raducanu is a Dior ambassador; the high-ranked Italian Jannik Sinner, works with Gucci; and Carlos Alcaraz, 2023 men’s winner at Wimbledon, is in ads for Louis Vuitton.
You don’t even have to play tennis to participate in the trend. Performance fabrics and functional design details of polos, sneakers and the like make practical additions to a wardrobe of casual clothes.
Although this tennis mini dress is hardly a mini. At just above the knee (34.75 inches from the shoulder), it is longer than most others I’ve seen and will please players who balk at too short skirts. A smart combination of a breathable mesh-like fabric on top and a cotton blend on the bottom, it sells for $128 at Anthropologie.
This sporty dress in a shiny cotton looks a little like a military uniform—sans those attached patches. Still, how can you not like a dress that zips on and off in one movement? It also looks a lot like Saint Laurent’s Saharienne dress for $4,650 but sells for $525 at Agnès b.
Going sailing on a yacht or want to look as if you are? This oversize textured cardigan with nautical stripes is made from a cotton yarn with a looser weave but what’s most attractive is its sailor-style collar that drapes in the back. It sells for $158 at J. Crew. Destination: French Riviera.
Finding the right T-shirt dress is not as easy as it seems. Rather than the typical straight silhouette, La Ligne’s tea-length style, in all cotton, has a slight swish at the hem and comes with a removable belt for cinching in your waist. And, there are pockets. It sells for $195.
One of Loewe creative director Jonathan Anderson’s strengths is making the ordinary look special, as he does with this shirt dress—with a white bib, wingtip collar, cuffs and a sarong tied around the waist. It sells for a heady $1,950.
Along with the usual navy and ivory options for this open-knit polo, Clare V. adds this fern green hue. You won’t be able to wear it to play at Wimbledon, but off-court you’ll score aces. It sells for $225.
Pleated skirts are no longer hung with the vibe of a boarding school uniform. This wrap version even has a drop waist. Show it off by tucking in a T-shirt or tank. It sells for $128 at J. Crew.
Instead of the traditional marinière, recharge your look with Alex Mill’s ultramarine mariner striped sweater with a rollneck and dropped shoulders for a relaxed summer vibe. It sells for $155.
The traditional cable-knit tennis vest looks new when cropped, worn sleeveless and paired with a pleated skirt and silver sneakers. To avoid baring the tummy, slip a T-shirt under the sweater. It sells for $78 at Aritzia.
Whether you’re flying to France or England or staying in the US to watch a tennis match this summer, this crisp Suzette Dress (with the brand’s beloved embroidered sardine) will keep you cool and confident. It sells for $295 on Clare V., who happens to be an enthusiastic tennis player and fan. Pssst: To avoid looking prim, roll up the sleeves and unbutton a couple of top buttons.
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DO YOU hear that sound coming from around your feet? It’s your toes screaming, “Free us; we’ve been cramped in here for months.” Although weather forecasters predict a few cool days at the end of the week, it’s time to let your toes show. On just how to do that, designers were divided.
Some like Emme Parsons and St. Agni preferred the barely there look with only a whisper of a strap grazing the foot; others, including Birkenstock and Sorel, chose to buckle in or wrap feet with wide straps. For ground control, many added rubber outsoles.
As the saying goes, “you pays your money and takes your choice.” Here are ours, below:
If you live by the less-is-more motto, consider the minimalism of Emme Parsons footwear. One delicate nappa leather cord, a toe ring and a covered elastic secure the foot on this washed gold Susan Slide ($395). The lightly padded leather insole cushions the foot, while a 10mm heel gives a bit of a leg up.
A shiny, metallic-embellished toe ring distinguishes Zara’s thong leather sandals. A little height (one inch) and a contoured footbed add to the appeal of these attractively priced ($89.90) sandals.
Sorel, better known for its high-quality, sturdy snow boots, takes on summer footwear with the same utilitarian attitude. The company’s new Crisscross Slide with soft-on-the-skin leather straps, molded footbed, foam midsole and molded rubber outsole, combines sporty-chic with go-anywhere functionality. It sells for $120.
Sophia Webster, creative director of her eponymous brand, calls her new collection “Havanna,” and it’s designed for summer. Well suited to the season is her signature adornment: butterfly wings, which she often attaches to the heel of her towering stilettos. Much more down to earth is this Flat Sandal ($550) with a colorful butterfly design across the foot. Simple black straps entwine the ankle while a cork sole leans into comfort.
Designed in Melbourne, Australia and handcrafted by artisans in India, A. Emery favors a clean, pared-back look for its footwear as in these Shel Sandals with a thong design and a wrap-around-the-ankle leather tie. Not everyone will welcome a thong and/or an ankle wrap. You be the judge on what flatters your feet. These eggshell sandals sell for $210 at FWRD.
St. Agni’s “Twist” sandal is named after its minimalist straps that wrap the foot seductively in smooth leather. A rounded toe, molded footbed, rubber outsole and chunky silhouette spell comfort. In addition to this chocolate brown color, they’re available in black and white for $285.
The popularity of Birkenstocks escapes me. Flattering to the foot they’re not. And they’re not inexpensive. However, I do see the appeal of these Arizona Essentials. Modeled on the original, they’re made from a lightweight, flexible plastic that’s shock-absorbing and waterproof. Wear them for beach outings and just hose off the sand. They sell for $49.95 at Zappos.
Despite fashion’s new embrace of flip-flops to wear with everything, my advice is stick to wearing them on the beach and around the pool. They’re not for all-day wear, as a podiatrist once told me when I mentioned I had worn them all summer and then complained about foot pain. That said, these Farm Parrot & Floral slip-on Haviannas will add whimsy to your swim wear. They sell for $38 at Zappos.
A happy medium between the minimalist strappy look and the heavy hardware of Birkenstocks, A molded footbed follows the shape of the foot and a rubber outsole gives the slip to slipping on J. Crew’s Colbie sandals, which sell for $198.
Fisherman sandals like these remind me of the shoes toddlers wear when they’re just learning to walk. Points in their favor are they’ll keep you well grounded; also they come in a variety of colors, including denim. My nod goes to silver. They sell for $125 at Anthropologie.
These Sangria stripe Weekend Slides with two wide cross straps in magenta and burgundy are made from hemp. Soft, sturdy, contoured rubber footbed in saddle brown, durable outsoles with welted details for added traction. And you can wash them. Whoopee! They sell for $139 at Rothys.
People with narrow feet will appreciate the back strap on these Crossover Buckle Sandals ($169, Massimo Dutti) for keeping their tootsies secure. Alas, they’re out of stock unless you wear a size 11. These are similar.
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The Very Best Ideas From Those ‘Best Gifts for Mom’ Lists
Remember Mama with a pretty bedside carafe and tumbler, Matouk seersucker robe, a forever sari flower bouquet, colorful hiking socks or acrylic tumblers for cocktails en plein air.
By Janet Kelly
WHAT DO MOMS (including stepmothers, grandmothers, great aunts, caring cousins, all the women we love) want in celebration of Mother’s Day this year? Good question. My guess is a little appreciation for all the schlepping, arranging, cooking, tireless listening to and soothing sore feelings and tempers for the people they care about. Depending upon the woman, that could be a pair of cushy hiking socks, a handy massage tool or a bouquet of fab flowers. Luckily for us, sites such as the New York Times’s Wirecutter, Food52, Veranda and Martha Stewart have done a lot of legwork, investigating, and compiling the best—most original/ least expensive/most useful or luxurious—gifts to bestow upon your favorite girl come Sunday, May 12. You could pore through their lists yourself or better yet, choose from our list (below) in which we’ve culled the best of the best.
One small good thing that will please any peanut-butter-loving mom: Grandpa Witmer’s Natural Peanut Butter Mixer. A few turns of the top handle ensures a jar of mixed, smooth peanut butter with no hardened gunk at the bottom. (The 3-inch lid screws on to all standard 16-ounce jars of peanut butter.) A Wirecutter under-$50 gift pick, it’s $19.49 at Amazon.
Who could resist roses—not just any roses —but the highly coveted David Austin blooms? A carefully considered composition of Juliet, Edith and Beatrice roses in soft pinks and yellows, the Diana bouquet (a Veranda recommendation) sells for $89 at Bouqs.
Even with assiduous watering and feeding, flowers die. But not this Sari Bouquet ($71.92) from fair-trade company Ten Thousand Villages. The maintenance-free arrangement includes 10 recycled sari flowers, handcrafted by women in Bangladesh.
Outdoor happy hours will be so much happier for Mom with shatterproof—also dishwasher-safe— TarHong’s acrylic drink ware. Think lemonade and/or gin and tonics on the patio. Suggested by recipes and kitchenware site Food52, the glasses are available in sets of six: short tumblers are $39, goblets,$51 and tall tumblers, $54.
Your nearest and dearest are never far away with Aura Carver, a Wi-Fi-connected picture frame (10.1 inches) that scrolls through a slideshow of grandkids, pets, best friends, etc. A free Aura app lets you add pictures. Swipe the touch bar to adjust slideshow speed or change photos. A gift idea courtesy of Oprah, it’s available in charcoal or gray and sells for $149.
When summer days sizzle, your favorite gal can keep her cool in this luxe seersucker Mateo robe from high-end linen purveyor Matouk. Also available in peony, azure, ecru, and brown, this Martha Stewart-recommended gift sells for $243.
Upgrade her kitchen counter with this svelte-looking sparkling-water maker. Made with a stainless-steel enclosure, an internal safety-valve system and a precision nozzle for a smooth, controlled spray beam, it transforms ordinary tap water. The Aarke Carbonator 3, suggested by Food52, sells for $229.
A new mom will not only stay hydrated but also enjoy having a lovely-to-look-at, hand-painted carafe and tumbler set ($94) from Petra Palumbo by her bedside.
One of Wirecutter’s “best cheap gifts,” this lightweight cushion hiking sock ($23.95, Backcountry) will keep feet dry. Made from merino wool, it not only wicks moisture but also fights odors. Nice colors, too.
Oh, her aching such-and-such. Post-workout or anytime at all, this lightweight portable Theragun mini massage gun (on Real Simple’s best-of list) has three settings for decreasing muscle soreness and relieving pain and discomfort. For a limited time it’s on sale for $169.
A Wirecutter pick for best Mother’s Day gifts, this Gisele Long Pj Set, I can attest, not only looks good (in a classic silhouette) but also keeps you cool thanks to a temperature-regulating knit fabric. It also feels good on your skin, is machine washable and durable. Available in a whole bunch of other colors, it sells for $138.
A pick from foodie site Delish, this sleek stoneware Convivial Oil Cruet (shown above, available in ivory or natural) will attractively store any delicious cooking oil or vinegar your mom’s heart desires. Each cruet sells for $115 at West Elm.
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From left to right, clockwise: Asics’s best bet for tennis; a shiny, sporty shoe from J. Crew; a classic Vans style with stars; anyone for pickleball? and Puma’s baby-blue retro option.
By Janet Kelly
REMEMBER those chunky “Dad” sneakers of a few years ago? They’re mostly toast—no love lost there—while new versions of Adidas’s circa 1970 soccer shoe are selling out. Sneakers have become so popular and accepted they’ve entered the footwear establishment—to wear almost anywhere. While your heels are gathering dust like mine, here are 10 ways to refresh your sneaker selection.
I know some of you will say, oh, white sneakers, how boring. Not I. That’s especially true when it comes to Cariuma’s OCA canvas sneaks with its gum rubber outsole. I own a pair that I wore all last summer, rain or shine, with jeans, dresses and skirts. The canvas is tough; the insoles are made from cork (for comfort) and the outsole is sturdy. The shoes stood up to the sometimes 17,000 steps a day I walked during a vacation in Dublin. They sell for $85.
That’s not to say I’m not charmed by color, like this Alohas Tb.490 sneaker, made from acid-green suede with those fab purple accents. Available in pink with a navy stripe and ivory with green accent stripes as well, they sell for $180 from Anthropologie. The Hawaii-founded, Barcelona-headquartered, made-in-Spain Alohas doesn’t shy away from vivid hues, and even more colors (including burgundy, lilac, orange and olive) are available on the brand’s website.
I happened to notice a pair of these Elan sneakers (in black and white) sitting under the bench at the entrance to my Pilates studio and noted how fresh and ready for spring they looked. From the British label Gola, they’re constructed with a faux suede upper, leather insole and rubber outsole. Available in a few other colors—yellow, pink and gray and royal blue and white—they sell for $110 at Anthropologie.
For those who appreciate the benefits of a slip-on for a fast getaway, these sneakers with denim inserts and starry appliqués on the upper, might bewitch you with their whimsy but sell you on their cushioned insoles, padded collars and rubber waffle outsoles. Did we mention their $65 price tag from Vans?
It was only a matter of time before athletic shoe manufacturers jumped on pickleball as a potential new market. Asics, which makes shoes for golf, tennis, running, soccer, volleyball, etc., is hoping to capture some of the 13.6 million people who played pickleball in the last year with its Gel-Renma shoes ($85). With grooves in the outsole to accommodate side-to-side movements, they also have a midsole for increased stability. Although I’m fond of this sapphire color, unless you’re an avid pickleball player, I’d stick with the tennis sneakers you may already own.
If you have your heart set on a pair of Adidas’s Samba OG sneakers, especially a pair in a more offbeat color combo—like the dark brown leather, contrasting marigold stripes and suede toecaps above—you need a Plan B. They’re sold out as are most of the color options. The white with black stripes has the most availability in the most sizes as we go to press, but keep checking the Adidas site for other combinations. The price runs about $100 but can vary wildly depending on the vendor.
Puma’s Palermo Leather Sneaker is similar in style to the Adidas Samba except it’s not sold out almost everywhere in every color—at least not in this pale blue suede, which I think is quite fetching. It sells for $90 at Zappos.
How cute are these color-block retro tennis sneakers ($140) from Boden? So cute, unfortunately, they’re almost all sold out. But they also come in a preppy pink and green and a white and metallic combo. Take the tennis in the name with a grain of salt—these shoes are playful but not for playing tennis.
Speaking of tennis, at my clinic last Friday, I noticed a woman wearing these Asics Gel-Resolution 9 shoes. When I complimented her on them she told me she swears by this model and has bought it on repeat. (New York magazine’s “The Strategist” rated it as best overall women’s tennis sneaker.) Although I didn’t get a chance to see her play, I know she understands looking good is part of the game plan. The shoes sell for $150 at Zappos.
If you’re tempted to dip your toes into a shiny pair of sneakers, consider this: J. Crew’s Field Sneaker in metallic leather sells for $118, but with code SHOPNOW, you get 30 percent off that price.
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